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Reaching Out ("Dr. J" - totally engrossing tale, should be a movie)
ESPN ^ | 12-17-08 | Tom Friend

Posted on 12/18/2008 3:40:17 PM PST by STARWISE

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Samantha Stevenson

Alexandra

ALEXANDRA, DR. J - VIDEO

Watch this story on "Outside the Lines" at 9 a.m. ET Sunday on ESPN.

1 posted on 12/18/2008 3:40:18 PM PST by STARWISE
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What an amazing story! For Alexandra to forgive all that went on and forge any kind of relationship with her father is truly impressive.


2 posted on 12/18/2008 3:48:08 PM PST by Tax-chick ("And the rum is for all your good vices.")
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To: Tax-chick

Whole story is incredible ... still sniffing .. ;)


3 posted on 12/18/2008 3:51:03 PM PST by STARWISE ((They (Dims) think of this WOT as Bush's war, not America's war-RichardMiniter, respected OBL author)
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I’d like to go after both parents with a baseball bat, though, except that the daughter has turned out so positively. Interviewed his wife about being a sports-star’s spouse and then had an affair with him - un-FReeping-believable. But somehow she raised a good woman under tough conditions, so I suppose we can’t define her just by the worst thing she did in life.


4 posted on 12/18/2008 3:58:24 PM PST by Tax-chick ("And the rum is for all your good vices.")
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To: STARWISE

To this day Dr. J has the most exciting moves ever in basketball, that one handed reverse layup against the Lakers that you always see was done AFTER his prime, he could do even more when he was in the ABA. Don’t get me wrong, he was still playing way above the rim with the Sixers, but in the ABA in his early twenties he was playing above the backboard.


5 posted on 12/18/2008 4:03:51 PM PST by word_warrior_bob (You can now see my amazing doggie and new puppy on my homepage!! Come say hello to Jake & Sonny)
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To: STARWISE

I once respected Julius Erving, but he was too pu**6 whipped by his wife to acknowledge his daughter. What a louse.


6 posted on 12/18/2008 4:28:07 PM PST by em2vn
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I was fortunate to grow up on Long Island (Julius grew up near me on the island) when Dr. J. played for the Nets in the Nassau Coliseum (pre-merger days). He truly was inspirational both on and off the court during his career, with this exception.

I am happy to see that his daughter was able to forge a relationship with him now. I had remembered when the story first broke and had kind of forgotten about it when the daughter dropped out of the limelight.

Dr. J. was the gold standard for NBA players at the time in how to handle themselves off the court (obviously we didn't know about this at the time). He never got into legal trouble, was never seen doing drugs (the NBA had a terrible cocaine problem at the time), and even ended up wisely investing his money. I believe he even purchased a piece of the local Coca Cola Bottling company in Philadelphia.

I wish him and Alexandra the best as they continue to repair what must have been a nightmare for both, regardless of what the article must say.

And I would also like to congratulate the mother for making the best of the situation. She showed determination and love towards a daughter that could easily have been aborted by a woman who would not have wanted to live with the consequences of her poor decision.

I hope this ends happily for all involved.

7 posted on 12/18/2008 4:32:00 PM PST by LRoggy (Peter's Son's Business)
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Sorry folks,
Happy ending would have been a knee to the crotch.
8 posted on 12/18/2008 4:36:58 PM PST by norton
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It’s clear that he chose to keep peace
with his wife at the time, but I think
it’s a pretty happy ending/beginning.

When you read the whole saga and hear
him describe his feelings about having
his daughter out there, wondering if she’d
want to deal with him, you can hear the
emotion. He seems like a loving man and
father ... if growing up late.


9 posted on 12/18/2008 4:49:04 PM PST by STARWISE ((They (Dims) think of this WOT as Bush's war, not America's war-RichardMiniter, respected OBL author)
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To: LRoggy
Agreed
God bless them both on this new journey.
10 posted on 12/18/2008 4:52:05 PM PST by StarfireIV (Dissent, everyone's birthright and now a target for the throwers of innuendo, expletives, and shoes)
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To: STARWISE

An amazing story and one I can relate to. I will look for and support her sponsors.


11 posted on 12/18/2008 4:55:51 PM PST by jyro (French-like Democrats wave the white flag of surrender while we are winning)
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did people once respect the marriage vows or am I just naive?....why do women go after married men?....its not something we want done to us.....geesh....


12 posted on 12/18/2008 9:31:27 PM PST by cherry
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To: STARWISE

Nice story, thanks for the post.


13 posted on 12/18/2008 9:59:06 PM PST by ScreamingFist (Annihilation - The result of underestimating your enemies. NRA)
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To: cherry

I remember a story a few years ago in ESPN The Magazine on Alexandria and her mom. Alexandria is a terrific young lady, but her mom came across totally self-centered and with a massive chip on her shoulder (not just for Dr. J, but the world).


14 posted on 12/19/2008 2:22:24 AM PST by GodBlessRonaldReagan (Wakka-ding-hoy - battle cry of the Plexus Rangers!)
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To: cherry

There have always been people who didn’t respect their own or others’ marriages. I don’t know why women pursue married men - maybe just because it’s convenient, that’s who they work with or meet.


15 posted on 12/19/2008 4:07:59 AM PST by Tax-chick ("And the rum is for all your good vices.")
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To: Tax-chick
It seems to me that the old reasoning that such a woman is looking for a father figure still applies pretty well. I'd be willing to bet that the majority of these women were neglected by their fathers.
16 posted on 12/19/2008 4:12:06 AM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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You could be right. The women who go after my husband tend to be single moms.


17 posted on 12/19/2008 4:33:22 AM PST by Tax-chick ("And the rum is for all your good vices.")
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Always looking to take Daddy away from Mommy, yet they don’t really trust men. It’s sad.


18 posted on 12/19/2008 4:35:45 AM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: STARWISE

bttt


19 posted on 12/19/2008 4:44:46 AM PST by comps4spice (It's okay to say "Merry Christmas".)
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DP had to keep chaperones with him for a while - at least two Cub Scouts at all times!


20 posted on 12/19/2008 5:00:09 AM PST by Tax-chick ("And the rum is for all your good vices.")
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