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Why I chose abortion twice
UK Telegraph ^ | 5/12/08 | Lucy Cavendish

Posted on 05/11/2008 11:48:32 AM PDT by wagglebee

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To: wagglebee

Actress Ellen Burstyn (The Exorcist) writes in her recent autobio about her abortion (in her 20’s).

Much later she saw a picture of a baby at the same period of gestation as when she aborted.

She said she had no idea it looked like that, that she was aborting a real baby.

Her mother responded with “what did you think it looked like.”

Coutse evil Planned Parenhood won’t ever tell the truth—referring to the unborn baby as the “product of conception.”


81 posted on 05/11/2008 2:22:41 PM PDT by Liz (Without the brave, there'd be no land of the free. Senator Fred Thompson)
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To: Cowgirl

What seemed like a good idea at the time (and her defense of it) can later become a haunting nightmare.

Nurse friend works with older patients——some talk about nothing but their abortions and babble on and on regretfully about the babies they would have had.

Their nightmares must be hideous.


82 posted on 05/11/2008 2:29:22 PM PDT by Liz (Without the brave, there'd be no land of the free. Senator Fred Thompson)
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To: wagglebee; informavoracious; larose; RJR_fan; Prospero; Conservative Vermont Vet; ...
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83 posted on 05/11/2008 2:37:07 PM PDT by narses (...the spirit of Trent is abroad once more.)
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To: ikka
We are sometimes made to feel that we are murdering our unborn babies and acting immorally.

Hold it- passive voice alert. Just who is it making you feel this way? I thought nobody talked about it. Maybe it's that little voice that knows you are killing something alive inside you - that deserved to breathe and live and play and love just as you do, but you wanted what was best for you. You made a choice that affected not just yourself, but another human being, who didn't have such a choice.
84 posted on 05/11/2008 3:03:38 PM PDT by Apparatchik
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To: wagglebee

What a ridiculous line of reasoning: because something happens, it ought to happen. Because it ought to happen, we must “understand” it.


85 posted on 05/11/2008 3:11:40 PM PDT by fightinJAG (RUSH: McCain was in the Hanoi Hilton longer than we've been in Iraq, and never gave up.)
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To: wagglebee
...we are murdering our unborn babies and acting immorally. We are snubbing life – not just life, a baby's life. And, these days, babies in the womb have been given faces, names and characteristics through sophisticated technologies such as 3-D scanning.

She got that right. I have several friends who have had abortions; some have had more than one. One, who is now a nurse, cried to me "What have I done? What have I done?" and it broke my heart, because she knew exactly what she had done and lives with that knowledge and a shrine to the baby so she can remember. Another "hooked back up" with the guy who fathered her first aborted baby approx 4 years later for a repeat performance. Massive depression followed, along with alcohol dependence. A third had two abortions and gets consumed with sadness on the anniversaries of her abortions, the anniversaries of the would-be due dates, and when friends or co-workers have babies (and she keeps adopting more cats). The fourth, agreed with her husband it was "not the right time for this baby to enter the world," had the abortion when their first two children were approx 7 & 11... so there's a lot of children I look forward to meeting in eternity and grieve their murders and the lies that are used to justify them. All but the 4th experience a great deal of pain over what they have done; none of them believe in God or Christ; and the 4th believes in karma, anthroposophy (Steiner/Waldorf), Kali, the Hindu goddess of destruction, astrology, and Crowley's "The Whole of the Law Shall Be Do As Thou Wilt" - but also thinks and war is bad and peace has a chance, all the while defining herself as an anarchist (even when I point out that she stops at stoplights!). Those concepts fully support her "choice." The bible is right-on about people being deceived; this is the biggest example - this and the proud mothers of suicide bombers. God help us.
86 posted on 05/11/2008 3:19:44 PM PDT by MonicaG (Help Wanted: Conservative leadership '08)
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To: wagglebee

Lucy, never mind the critics, here is a well known person who agrees with you.
“To sum it all up, I must say that I regret nothing”.
Adolph Eichman


87 posted on 05/11/2008 3:44:32 PM PDT by count-your-change (you don't have to be brilliant, not being stupid is enough.)
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To: wagglebee
Virtually every woman I know of my generation has had an abortion.

If all your friends are skanks ....

88 posted on 05/11/2008 3:44:40 PM PDT by stinkerpot65 (Global warming is a Marxist lie.)
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To: netmilsmom

Me too.

She needs to hang around with a higher class of people.

Seriously.


89 posted on 05/11/2008 3:49:44 PM PDT by Hulka
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To: wagglebee

What can one say? I hope she will find peace and forgiveness when she realizes the destruction of innocent life.


90 posted on 05/11/2008 4:20:47 PM PDT by investigateworld ( Abortion stops a beating heart.)
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To: wagglebee

The title should be, “Why I killed two of my own babies.”

Or maybe there isn’t really any reason to write an article like this.


91 posted on 05/11/2008 4:24:15 PM PDT by dsc
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To: wagglebee

“Some hard-line anti-abortionists will tell you that there is no real difference between getting rid of an unwanted pregnancy at eight weeks and at 24.”

Which is really stupid, because it has been scientifically demonstrated beyond all question that at nine weeks the Blue Fairy comes and turns the clump of cells into a real baby with her magic wand.


92 posted on 05/11/2008 4:27:51 PM PDT by dsc
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To: netmilsmom

Me too.


93 posted on 05/11/2008 4:44:44 PM PDT by metmom (Welfare was never meant to be a career choice.)
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To: foldspace

Lots of big ‘ol capital letters there, but I’m puzzled as to exactly what you plan to do regarding the abortion of male babies.


94 posted on 05/11/2008 4:51:06 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Yes, but how does that help?)
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To: wagglebee
There is, of course, another perspective that women who have had abortions take:

"I've been wanting to write you since meeting with you last December. I have been referred to Project Rachel via a friend...who is very much involved in the anti-abortion movement and serves it so well.

The purpose of this note is to say "Thank you." I'm not sure why it has been so difficult to articulate the profound effect the meeting had on me. Words seem inadequate in this instance to express my gratitude. I have struggled greatly with the aftermath of my abortion. My previous attempts to reconcile were unsuccessful. What was different this time was the absolute and complete acknowledgment of the baby destroyed. It was no longer just a "little bit of tissue" or a "blood clot" that ceased to exist. So much of the pain I've felt through the years has been for that unborn, discarded, and denied human being.

So when you said, "You can name your baby," something shifted for me. I will never forget those words because he then became a baby, at last retrieved from the garbage pail into which he was so brutally tossed. Thank you for acknowledging him, for helping me recover him, for restoring the dignity I denied him. I can now be a little easier with myself knowing he's been taken care of-that he's been lifted from the depths and placed so lovingly in God's care. I've named him Matthew Joseph. I hope you'll say a prayer for him.

I have one more "thank you"-thanks for representing Jesus Christ so well with me".

***

"I've just attended the healing service, "At Peace with the Unborn," held at (our) church. The feeling of peace in my heart right now is beyond belief. The grief and burden that has been with me for too many years is lifted. It was a totally beautiful and purposeful service!

I pray that this service reaches all women who share its need. Thank you for bringing this service to us. Sincerely, A Catholic who has come home."

Healing Wounds: The Rachel Groups

Cardinal John J. O'Connor
Archbishop of New York
Member of the Pontifical Council
for Pastoral Assistance to Health Care Workers

95 posted on 05/11/2008 4:56:02 PM PDT by the invisib1e hand (I'm over it.)
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To: CindyDawg

“I do agree with one part though. There are a lot of women that are grieving and hurting silently. They need support. Not the “its ok. Everyone does it support , but that God forgives and heals support”.”

Well said Cindy Dawg..


96 posted on 05/11/2008 4:58:02 PM PDT by M0sby (Proud Wife of MSgt Dan Edwards USMC (Ret.))
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To: wagglebee; All

Has anyone contacted the Telegraph to ask when the article about the women who chose to let their babies live will be running?


97 posted on 05/11/2008 5:00:53 PM PDT by the invisib1e hand (I'm over it.)
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To: wagglebee

“Virtually every woman I know of my generation has had an abortion”

Stopped right there. Unbelievably sick.


98 posted on 05/11/2008 5:01:51 PM PDT by Tigercap (McCain. For Supreme Court judge nominations and WOT progress if nothing else.)
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To: luckystarmom

I’ve had 2 miscarriages.. I have ultrasound pictures of both of them... one of them was named... I think of both of them as my children in heaven because they ARE.. your womb wasn’t empty before you miscarried, it had a child in it. I’m sorry you don’t get it.


99 posted on 05/11/2008 5:13:51 PM PDT by Awestruck (All the usual suspects)
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To: Mrs.Z
My mother shared her abortion story with me when I was 12.

Basically, a year after she had me, she got pregnant again. She was already so "tired and stressed and overwhelmed" that she couldn't handle another child, and so, in 1974, she had a "perfectly safe and legal" abortion.

I was horrified, and spent a lot of time in my teens feeling like I was such a difficult baby that it was my fault that she killed her baby.

It drove a permanent wedge between us.

100 posted on 05/11/2008 5:23:08 PM PDT by Malacoda (A day without a pi$$ed-off muslim is like a day without sunshine.)
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