Posted on 03/17/2006 6:56:20 PM PST by Tirian
And what would they be marrying? They will have daughters. Some of these fathers will force their daughters to have abortions.
Men are promiscuous, too, but they get a pass because they don't get pregnant. I believe they will be held accountable in the next world, same as women.
I resent it that it is always the woman's fault. There is a lot of pressure on women to have sex. Most men don't want a relationship with you if you won't put out. It isn't as easy as you would have it.
It is grossly unfair to place all the blame on women. If men can't get it from you, they will dump you and have sex with somebody else. If they like you, they will continue in a friendship perhaps.
What decent woman would want to marry a man like that?
Prince Charles didn't have to be a virgin. Diana did. The czar of Russia had a mistress, but his wife was probably expected to be a virgin. It's very unfair to women, always has been, probably always will be.
In some ways, men are collectively reaping what they have sown down through history. Women are tramps now. Now they whine that they can't find a nice wife. You can't have it both ways.
If she likes the guy, gives in so as not to lose him, she's in a real bind if she gets pregnant. She's not only responsible for the man having sex with her; she's responsible for using birth control.
It is simply the old double standard, and I'm fed up with it.
Women only control sex because they have to in self defense and then are condemned to sitting at home on weekends. Not too many young women can handle that while the guys they have crushes on are out having fun . . .and sex, plenty of it.
It's the ultimate in karma coming back home to roost. You killed your baby and you also killed yourself in the process.
You have come up with many reasons for women to be promiscuous.
I have come up with reasons for them not to be promiscuous.
"All the girls do it" seems to be your biggest reason.
If all the girls were jumping off of a cliff, would you?
The blame deserves to be on women. Women control sex.
Why marry the cow when you can get all the milk you want from many different cows for free?
OK, you have hit a hotbutton with me on this. Let's cut if off here.
"The blame deserves to be on women. Women control sex."
Here's the real reason for the bitterness this poster expresses. ;-D
The real reason is the truth.
Why buy the cow when so many cows are willing to give their milk for free?
I suppose if you see marriage as being all about sex, that would make sense. Some of us see it as a long-term, full relationship that works on many levels - as an emotional, sexual, financial, all-around partnership.
Naturally, if sex as a commodity is your understanding of relationships, you'd make that comparison. Our experiences obviously vary from each other. :)
Well, if you see sex as a part of marriage then why are so many women now "giving their milk away" without being married? This is the norm rather than the exception.
Yes, sex IS A PART OR MARRIAGE. That's exactly what I have been saying. Others have been argueing with me that women (who are the ones who control sex) should be having sex outside of marriage "because everyone else is and you can't keep a boyfriend without doing it", etc.
My point is: Get married, then have all the sex you want.
Thanks for helping me make my point, which your post does.
I guess I don't see it as the "one way or the other" absolute that you do. I certainly gave away a lot of milk myself in my single days, but I've also been solidly married for 20 years. I also wouldn't have married any man who referred to me in bovine terms.
And he's definitely a quality guy, since he's from the Pittsburgh area and is a Steelers fan. ;-D I can only hope that you're as happily married.
I'm not referring to women in bovine terms, that is only an analogy. Would you rather me refer to promiscuous women in the correct term? Would you rather me use the correct term of the female anatomy that women are giving away for free or would you rather me refer to it as milk?
I'm trying to make a point here without being crude or rude. Guess it is all going over your head, but I'm not surprised.
Where are the money-grubbing lawyers...
looks like a vulnerable target--Planned Parenthood
My disagreement doesn't mean that I don't understand what you're saying, but thanks for the gratuitous condescension. If promiscuous women have a "correct term", what is the correct term for promiscous men, "attaboy!"?
Men are out of control. They would have sex anytime, all the time.
That's why the Lord has women controlling sex.
When men and women are both out of control you have what you have now.
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