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X: 40-year-old Woman Gives her Checklist for a mate
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Posted on 11/20/2025 5:09:23 PM PST by TigerClaws

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To: TigerClaws

Even green or blue, her complimentary colors couldn’t change that attitude. She’s going to be a very lonely woman.


61 posted on 11/21/2025 3:13:23 AM PST by lucky american (Had enough yet?)
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To: Tench_Coxe

This crazy cat lady has been married to the same wonderful guy for many, many moons.

It’s not about the cats.

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62 posted on 11/21/2025 4:04:31 AM PST by mewzilla (Swing away, Mr. President, swing away! ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ๐Ÿด๓ ง๓ ข๓ ฅ๓ ฎ๓ ง๓ ฟ )
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To: AF_Blue

https://youtu.be/l3yDLvp9le0?si=4q97TGU8d-Iyq6JT


63 posted on 11/21/2025 4:11:27 AM PST by Mark17 (Retired USAF air traffic controller. ๐ŸŽค Father of USAF ISR pilot. โœˆ๏ธ Aviation is in our DNA)
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To: TigerClaws

This is what is mind-boggling about women like this. If a man - or woman - has a seven-figure salary, they are not looking for a woman that looks like her.


64 posted on 11/21/2025 4:20:33 AM PST by 7thson (I've got a seat at the big conference table! I'm gonna paint my logo on it!)
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To: Mark17

I nominate your response as the best response in this thread!


65 posted on 11/21/2025 4:21:06 AM PST by 7thson (I've got a seat at the big conference table! I'm gonna paint my logo on it!)
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To: 7thson

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66 posted on 11/21/2025 4:38:44 AM PST by Mark17 (Retired USAF air traffic controller. ๐ŸŽค Father of USAF ISR pilot. โœˆ๏ธ Aviation is in our DNA)
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To: 7thson

Thank you for your service. I thoughtfully considered joining the Navy, but eventually, I chose the USAF, as enlisted. My son is a commissioned USAF officer. ๐Ÿ‘


67 posted on 11/21/2025 4:43:36 AM PST by Mark17 (Retired USAF air traffic controller. ๐ŸŽค Father of USAF ISR pilot. โœˆ๏ธ Aviation is in our DNA)
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To: TigerClaws

At 18 the women learn that they need to be pretty and available & thus many men will come calling. This develops a habit in many of them of playing the field, having lots of fun, and making their list of non negotiables - every attribute they liked in each man they dated is put on the list & every attribute they did not like is put on the list of must not haves. With time that list gets longer and longer. At the same time the things they bring to the table gets more mature like a bowl of ice cream matures on the porch on a hot sunny day.

At 18 the men learn that rejection is normal and that they are outclassed by the more mature men. They either learn and work to become more desirable or they fail. Most do learn & work to improve themselves so that they can attract the women they want. They do fade in many ways naturally. But itโ€™s not until their 60s or later that this diminishes their potential.

Because men die off faster than women, the demographics are definitely not on the side of women. By age 90 itโ€™s about 7:1.

The internet era has changed things drastically. The audience of men chasing the young women is far greater than in the past. So this makes the divide for men and women even much greater. The women have much more choices. Most of the young men are completely shut out. The women hardly need to try. For the men - they must try super hard to even have a chance. Every year that passes the lists of the women get longer & longer. Every year that passes the skills & maturity & wisdom of the men gets better. Just as a 22 yo man is better at winning the hearts of 19yo women than a 20yo man so too is a 30yo man at far outclassing the men in their 20s. Yes, young women prefer a man closer to their age but not if it means sacrificing maturity. That is why men do hit the wall, but it comes much more slowly than for women.

For women they slam into the wall and ask โ€œwhere did all the men goโ€. What happened is that their own list keeps getting longer & the men meeting that criteria gets smaller & those still meeting that criteria are looking for women with shorter lists & ice cream bowl less melted. Those men also disappear from the market as tthey settle down.


68 posted on 11/21/2025 4:50:01 AM PST by Degaston
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To: TigerClaws

I’m going out on a limb here, but I think she has seen a lot of disappointment in her life.


69 posted on 11/21/2025 4:52:21 AM PST by Mashood
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To: TigerClaws

Dominatrix


70 posted on 11/21/2025 4:55:14 AM PST by Rlsau1
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To: Steely Tom

“That’s a lot of demands for someone who looks like she’s from Whoville.”

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LOL! Post of the day, but itโ€™s early.


71 posted on 11/21/2025 5:05:40 AM PST by TheRake ("It's easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled". ~Mark Twain)
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To: Mark17

She asked, how long would it be, to find one like that. I was thinking, in the year 2525.

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If man is still alive.


72 posted on 11/21/2025 5:08:29 AM PST by TheRake ("It's easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled". ~Mark Twain)
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To: anton

“She gave it away with the 7 figure salary.”
I think that rules out 99.5 percent of men and all the ones under 35.


73 posted on 11/21/2025 5:33:31 AM PST by brookwood (First the left said it was OK to steal. Next they said it was OK to kill.)
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To: brookwood

AI says 575,000. Most of these will be men. Overwhelmingly married already 85-90%. Leaves 86000 single men.

I think that is .0003 or three one hundredths of one percent.


74 posted on 11/21/2025 5:47:36 AM PST by anton
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To: Jonty30
For these women, with mile long lists and no compromise,

and no mention of kindness, love, compromise, sacrifice, etc.

75 posted on 11/21/2025 6:05:11 AM PST by DCBryan1 (Inter arma enim silent leges! - Cicero )
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