What you do can make you extremely likable. So can what you don’t choose to do. 1. They don’t blame. 2. They don’t control. 3. They don’t try to impress. 4. They don’t cling. 5. They don’t interrupt. 6. They don’t whine. 7. They don’t criticize. 8. They don’t preach. 9. They don’t live in the past. 10. They don’t let fear hold them back.