Yes, I agree. They are marrying the same kind of women later. I was working for a clinical psychologist when I read that book. I described the contents and she commented that if the information in it was genuine (not slanted) then many of those women have been traumatized (when life is not what you thought it was to a drastic degree. Little girls grow up wanting to be special to someone and end up acting/being treated like a “service” girl) The girls would be traumatized and that condition can result in frigidity (feeling used shuts down passion). How many men have you heard complain that their wives only slept with them until they married and then sex stopped. It might be that those women are/were traumatized and they didn’t grow out of trauma - they just learned “men talk to me if I give them sex” and used that to secure a mate. So a guy may be sleeping with x number of women and at that same time, his wife-to-be is one of x women that some other guy is sleeping with - the two come together later in life and it doesn’t always go well due to old baggage. So yes - the guy is marryign the same kind of women.
So when men complain their wives deny them sex, I wonder if some of his old flames are denying other guys sex because of “wine ‘em and dine em” or “The Girls Get Prettier At Closing Time”
. Mind you, I’m only zeroing in on this issue - there are women and men who have these behaviors (e.g., manipulative women who set the rules to get what they want) for other reasons.