Just because you call yourself Christian doesn't make you one. The god you make up in your head is just an idol if he doesn't match what is written in Scripture. Look up the verses that state Jesus will tell some followers "I never knew you". They are followers, they say they have eaten with Him( Communion). They say He preached in their streets,( His Word was spoken in their hearing), but they never knew anything about what He was saying to them, They just made up the god they wanted to follow. This is no different than carving out a piece of wood and falling in front of it. These people have been told that God is love, ergo God must love the sodomite, forgot to read the verses where God says they will not see the Kingdom of Heaven. He has shown multiple times He expects sinners to change. You can't tell the Potter what He must do with His clay.