John ChillingworthMen -- as we know now, thanks to investigators like Dr. John Gray -- are from Mars, women from Venus. On our respective planets we, or our ancestors, learned to do certain things differently: shop, argue, deploy the TV clicker. To this ever-expanding list we must now add writing. Not writing in the literal sense of making marks on a page -- though clearly there are vast differences there as well (legibility must be more prized on Venus) -- but writing as linguistic expression. This is slightly different from conversation, in which, as Deborah Tannen, another of the scholars...