“American Christianity in the last two hundred years has been feminized. It presents Jesus as a friend, a lover, someone who ‘walks with me and talks with me.’ This is fine rapturous imagery for women who need a social life. Or it depicts Jesus whipped, dead on the cross. Neither is the type of Christ the typical male wants much to do with.”Men are turned off by feminized, "Jesus is my boyfriend" churches.
Jesus is not to be found in virtually all of protestantism. Women are the primary source of leadership and influence in most churches. Men are castrated. Lesbianism is increasingly influential especially in the United Methodist denomination. Manly Christianity is frowned upon and outright rejected by leadership. Wesley would throw the lot of them out into the cold.