This gets us into how one views Revelation, and a lot of other prophetic material, the prophets, for instance. Time wise, it seems you have a very rigid view. Time wise, I see some of the stuff in Revelation as kaleidoscopic, some of it proleptic. The seals, trumpets, and vials, for instance. A rigid view would see them as 21 events happening one after another in time. Does the day of the Lord take place as the sixth event (the sixth seal) of the 21?
The article at the link has the marriage of the Lamb taking place, time wise, after Armageddon. He sees it in the setting you see in Isaiah 25, a picture of rejoicing and feasting, after Armageddon, after the cosmic calamities of the day of the Lord. He sees the marriage supper of the Lamb fitting into that picture. So do I.
We are talking apocalyptic stuff here (Revelation). Its not like reading something coming from the hand of man.
Maybe not a good enough answer for you, but its the best I can do.
That puts everyone who enters the Millennial Kingdom into the Christian (the Bride) camp, right??? With spiritual bodies who will reign with Jesus...But reign over whom???