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Converting for Love (Like Natalie Portman’s Husband)? The Talmud Forbids It.
Tablet ^ | 11/7/2014 | Adam Kirsch

Posted on 11/07/2014 10:38:10 AM PST by SeekAndFind

The most common reason why people convert to Judaism today, I would guess, is because they want to marry a Jewish spouse. Such conversions are a sign of the amazing acceptance that Judaism enjoys in America, compared to the stigma it labored under for most of Western history. For a Christian to marry a Jew in medieval Europe meant stigmatization, isolation, perhaps even violence, as it does in many parts of the Muslim world today. For us, it is simply a personal choice, even a laudable demonstration of spousal loyalty.

It was surprising to learn in this week’s Daf Yomi reading, then, that according to the Talmud, converting out of love is actually forbidden. “Both a man who converted for the sake of a woman and a woman who converted for the sake of a man,” we read in Yevamot 24b, “they are not converts.” (The Koren Talmud’s notes make clear, however, that this is not how conversions are actually regulated in practice today; as often, the law has evolved significantly since the Talmud was written.)

The Talmud’s logic seems to be that conversion must not be undertaken for the sake of any personal advantage or reward, but strictly out of belief in the truth of Judaism. That is why the rabbis list converting for love alongside other kinds of compromised conversions, such as “one who converted for the sake of the king’s table”—that is, in order to receive financial support or career advancement from a Jewish government.

The same holds true of those who convert to escape punishment.

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TOPICS: Judaism; Religion & Culture
KEYWORDS: conversion; judaism; talmud
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1 posted on 11/07/2014 10:38:10 AM PST by SeekAndFind
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To: SeekAndFind; Larry Lucido; F15Eagle

**The most common reason why people convert to Judaism today, I would guess, is because they want to marry a Jewish spouse.**

Well, there is the whole shiksappeal thing.


2 posted on 11/07/2014 10:45:13 AM PST by Gamecock (USA, Ret. 27 years.)
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To: SeekAndFind

There’s not enough guilt already to go around?


3 posted on 11/07/2014 10:46:16 AM PST by Resettozero
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To: SeekAndFind

4 posted on 11/07/2014 10:46:19 AM PST by 2ndDivisionVet (The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me.)
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To: SeekAndFind

5 posted on 11/07/2014 10:47:16 AM PST by LibFreeUSA
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To: SeekAndFind

Interesting.


6 posted on 11/07/2014 10:51:06 AM PST by LegendHasIt
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To: SeekAndFind

I would think a Jewish woman would have to ask herself if a guy was willing to renounce his professed Lord and Savior, how long until he’s throwing her under the bus too.


7 posted on 11/07/2014 10:54:00 AM PST by Buckeye McFrog
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To: Buckeye McFrog

RE: I would think a Jewish woman would have to ask herself if a guy was willing to renounce his professed Lord and Savior, how long until he’s throwing her under the bus too.

“They went out from us, but they did not really belong to us. For if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us; but their going showed that none of them belonged to us.” ( 1 John 2:19 )


8 posted on 11/07/2014 11:05:14 AM PST by SeekAndFind (If at first you don't succeed, put it out for beta test.)
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To: LibFreeUSA
I prefer this pic


9 posted on 11/07/2014 11:08:24 AM PST by SeekAndFind (If at first you don't succeed, put it out for beta test.)
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To: LibFreeUSA

One of the best movies I’ve ever seen.


10 posted on 11/07/2014 11:09:53 AM PST by TomServo
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To: SeekAndFind
The most common reason why people convert to Judaism today, I would guess, is because they want to marry a Jewish spouse.

Or perhaps they are the lucky ones who have two souls.

11 posted on 11/07/2014 11:39:42 AM PST by GreensKeeperWillie (Sancte Maria, mater Dei, ora pro nobis.)
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To: TomServo

Would Mike and Crow agree?


12 posted on 11/07/2014 12:45:29 PM PST by vladimir998
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To: SeekAndFind

13 posted on 11/07/2014 12:48:08 PM PST by dfwgator (The "Fire Muschamp" tagline is back!)
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To: Buckeye McFrog

I thought that serious Jews didn’t accept converts anyway (because their relationship with God was specific to certain bloodlines).


14 posted on 11/07/2014 1:07:05 PM PST by kearnyirish2 (Affirmative action is economic warfare against white males (and therefore white families).)
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To: Gamecock
Yada yada yada, ya anti-Dentite!


15 posted on 11/07/2014 2:14:02 PM PST by Larry Lucido
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To: Buckeye McFrog
I would think a Jewish woman would have to ask herself if a guy was willing to renounce his professed Lord and Savior, how long until he’s throwing her under the bus too.

So true.
If faith is THAT important, then one ought to stay with his/her own faith.

Also, when one is strong in one's faith, s/he USUALLY evolves over the decades, gaining more insight, tolerance AND belief in that faith.
SOMETIMES people simply grow up and finally realize what is TRULY important in life: God, faith, family, friends, country and so on.

16 posted on 11/07/2014 2:25:20 PM PST by cloudmountain
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To: vladimir998

Huzzah!!


17 posted on 11/07/2014 2:34:11 PM PST by TomServo
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To: kearnyirish2

RE: because their relationship with God was specific to certain bloodlines

Would Moabites and Jericho-ites be considered acceptable blood lines?


18 posted on 11/07/2014 3:29:05 PM PST by SeekAndFind (If at first you don't succeed, put it out for beta test.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Is converting for the sake of children allowed?

(Seriously)


19 posted on 11/07/2014 4:19:58 PM PST by KosmicKitty (Liberals claim to want to hear other views, but then are shocked to discover there are other views)
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To: SeekAndFind

I don’t know; I’m not Jewish. I had been told by a Jewish person that they didn’t seek converts for the reason I outlined.


20 posted on 11/07/2014 4:24:07 PM PST by kearnyirish2 (Affirmative action is economic warfare against white males (and therefore white families).)
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