[the_boy_who_got_lost]

|| -Seldom do good deeds in secret.
| How would one know?

I suppose one would know if the person was always flaunting their good deeds.

Recently this family started coming to our church. The guy creeped me out (and he creeped my wife out more.)

I declared his wife narcissistic (to my wife and sister-in-law) after she stood up in church (without an invitation) and started sharing how she did some deeds that week. She used the words "me", "I" so many times it was so full of self praise it was sickening.

The next week she told me that she was praying for her brother because he was extremely narcissistic....and added that soon he wouldn't be because she was now praying for him.


Last week I found out the reason that they started attending out church. They recently moved from PA so that the creepy guy could get his PHD in the bible because he "felt like he wasn't able to move forward anymore in his church." and "People told him he needed to get more experience and learning."

Anyways I am a little more creeped out by him... ...his long hair, dangly earings, tight jeans...and that he looks like a biker, but his profession(s) are a cake decorator and a "pastor".

[Tax-chick]

I suppose one would know if the person was always flaunting their good deeds.

Good point.

Maybe your church will be good for the creepy people, if you're patient.