I’ve always been very frank with my only son about the cost of discipleship. He has told us that his desire is to go into missions overseas after college. This has been hard on me and I suppose it will be hardest on my wife as we’ll rarely see our son again. I “happened” to run into a person while on vacation who is experiencing a similar problem-his son has been a missionary overseas facing extreme hardship. He rarely sees him or communicates as he’s in a closed country. It has been difficult for him.
I suppose discipleship is multifaceted and is something we learn no matter what our age. Our children may be called by God to serve in areas abroad, all the while we know the hardships that awaits them. That is such a hard lesson. Still if God gave up His Son, can we not also give up our own? And can we not trust His sovereign will to direct his (and our) paths?
Discipleship isn’t just about attending church and fun. It is a serious commitment but one that God shares with us. I can (and I know Dr. E could) relish in the fact that at least my son has joined a PCA church and wants to work in their mission field. :O)
I am very grateful to your son for putting his life on the line for Christianity. Thank him for that, if you would, in spite of our differences.
Sola Deo Gloria.