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My trust fund made me miserable
nypost ^ | 08/15/2018 | Hannan Sparks

Posted on 08/16/2018 5:48:40 AM PDT by ChicagoConservative27

Over the past six years, Lane Fury has collected more than $185,000 in family money. Eventually, Fury stands to inherit roughly $6 million, but the 27-year-old doesn’t see this good fortune as a positive thing.

“I don’t actually want it,” says Fury. “There is this sense of shame or embarrassment, like maybe some of the problems in the world are my fault, so I shouldn’t really be open about [my wealth].”

While many people struggle to pay the bills and make ends meet, those lucky enough to have family money say they have problems of their own. Fury says having a trust fund is alienating and can lead to feelings of loneliness, guilt, depression and confusion.

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To: simpson96

Did you ever notice how you can see the ‘liberal’ on some people?


41 posted on 08/16/2018 6:27:53 AM PDT by Mr. K (No consequence of repealing Obamacare is worse than Obamacare itself.)
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To: ChicagoConservative27

I bet his father is so proud of the strong, independent man he’s raised.


42 posted on 08/16/2018 6:32:15 AM PDT by Centurion2000 (Coming in from the cold .... been a LONG while.)
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To: ChicagoConservative27
I wouldn't be so dismissive of the guy. There's probably a lot of truth to what he says.

I remember back in the 1980s when Pennsylvania had one of the first really big lottery jackpots of that era. It might have been about a $25 million jackpot. A friend of mine was going to college there at the time, and when I saw him a few months later I asked him how many lottery tickets he bought for that big drawing.

"None," he said.

When I asked him why not, he said: "Because I was afraid I'd win."

I thought he was crazy, but as I've gotten older I've realized there was a lot of wisdom in that.

I saw an interesting article a few years back about Domino's Pizza founder Tom Monaghan. When he sold off his stake in the company he was worth more than $1 billion, but he was careful to minimize the damage his money could do to his own family. He told the author of the article that his own children really only benefited from his wealth in two ways that would have been out of the ordinary for working-class Americans: (1) they didn't have to pay for their college education, and (2) each child was given a new car as a high school graduation gift.

I know a guy out west who is about as libertarian as anyone you will ever find, and yet he is pathologically opposed to legalized gambling because it violates his one core principle: People should have to work for their money.

43 posted on 08/16/2018 6:32:37 AM PDT by Alberta's Child ("The Russians escaped while we weren't watching them ... like Russians will.")
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To: ChicagoConservative27

The reason we see articles like this from the corrupt press is that they are laying the groundwork for the crooked Democrats to tax all the wealth away that is causing such problems among a few irresponsible idiots.


44 posted on 08/16/2018 6:39:58 AM PDT by Moonman62 (Give a man a fish and he'll be a Democrat. Teach a man to fish and he'll be a responsible citizen.)
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To: ChicagoConservative27
“I remember getting the trust statement when I graduated from college and seeing that I had ExxonMobil and Chevron stock — at a time when I was learning about climate change and the ways these large corporations exploit people and the planet,

These companies provide jobs for hundreds of thousands of workers, who are able to support themselves without welfare. Their products help make the world wealthier.

45 posted on 08/16/2018 6:41:13 AM PDT by mjp ((pro-{God, reality, reason, egoism, individualism, natural rights, limited government, capitalism}))
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To: ChicagoConservative27

On a larger scale, the “trust fund” of our founding fathers also makes them miserable...…………………….


46 posted on 08/16/2018 6:41:20 AM PDT by PeterPrinciple (Thinking Caps are no longer being issued but there must be a warehouse full of them somewhere.)
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To: ChicagoConservative27
My husband and I inherited over a million dollars about two years ago. My in laws had a life insurance policy a couple of them both worth over a million dollars. My Father in law was an executive with Pacific Northwest Bell, before the breakup so they were not poor and wanted to protect their hard earned assets with a life insurance policy, that way the fed and the state wouldn't get squat and they didn't!

We are in our mid 60's we don't have a problem with over spending, we are very mature, bought a couple of Harley Davidson's, gave money to our adult children for down payments on their homes, give 50% tips to waiters and waitress's when we go out.

One thing I can assure you, we are not depressed about having this money, we are more relaxed and worry free most of the time. The major worry is for our millennial children getting too much money at too young an age if/when we die. Will they act like the spoiled, ungrateful brats featured in this article? We are considering setting up a trust fund and doling out the money annually.

47 posted on 08/16/2018 6:44:48 AM PDT by thirst4truth (America, What difference does it make?)
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To: VTenigma

“Over the past six years, Lane Fury has collected more than $185,000 in family money. Eventually, Fury stands to inherit roughly $6 million, but the 27-year-old doesn’t see this good fortune as a positive thing”

My “inheritance” was a $90,000 debt. I’ll trade him.


48 posted on 08/16/2018 6:47:55 AM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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To: HartleyMBaldwin

What a crock!


49 posted on 08/16/2018 6:53:03 AM PDT by Agatsu77
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To: ChicagoConservative27

I’ll be happy to take it off your hands for you. I’ll even donate half of it over time, with interest, to a charity of your choice.


50 posted on 08/16/2018 6:53:43 AM PDT by rb22982
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

$6 mil will by you a nice house anywhere. That is 4x the median housing price even in SF, the most expensive in the US. $30k for one person is doable, maybe even two with tax credits and living in a low cost of living area (most of the country), but yeah its not a ton of money. $6m on the other hand could safely generate ~$200-300k/yr without ever touching principal.


51 posted on 08/16/2018 6:58:13 AM PDT by rb22982
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To: ChicagoConservative27
To these libs who claim they don't pay enough taxes, I say ante up and pay more to the Treasury.

To rich trust fund babies whining about how having too much money is a burden, I say put your money where your mouth is and give it all away.

Then get a minimum wage job to assuage your guilt.

People need to learn to count their blessings instead dwelling on how bad they think they have it.

52 posted on 08/16/2018 7:01:38 AM PDT by HotHunt
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To: Skywise

I always felt that wealth above a certain level becomes more of a responsibility for the person. What that means is that god gave you this blessing in trust and you to decide how best to use the money. Using this money does not mean you just give it away it might mean you start a business that employs people it also means you have the ability to spot a need within your community like a new playground for the kids or anything that wont be taken care of unless you yourself take the initiative. When I hear a shmuck who is miserable because he has money and he did not work for it. I think he is really miserable because he is not living up to a responsibility he has to take the imitative and take care of the need of the people around him.... Notice I did not say he had to do anything with the money for anyone but himself. What I am saying is if he spent his money only taking care of his perceived wants and pleasure he would remain unhappy because on some level he knows the money can better be used.


53 posted on 08/16/2018 7:03:54 AM PDT by PCPOET7
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To: E. Pluribus Unum

What do you consider decent? Six million dollars will buy anywhere from about eight to ten nice houses of 1500 sq ft or more even in better areas. There are plenty of large houses for sale right now in Beverly Hills.


54 posted on 08/16/2018 7:07:49 AM PDT by SoCal Pubbie
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To: ChicagoConservative27

And that's the rest of the story

55 posted on 08/16/2018 7:09:36 AM PDT by savedbygrace
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To: ChicagoConservative27
This kid has more mental problems than his trust fund creates. Plus, he is just stupid about the real estate market in Cali.

$6,000,000 will buy at least six (6) two-story 3-4,000 sq foot homes in So. Orange County in the best neighborhoods. Go to No. Orange County and that figure will by ten (10) nice homes in decent neighborhoods. Unless he's talking about the suburbs of Frisco and Silicon Valley he is so off the mark as to make him look even more stupid than his mental problems suggest.

I know, I've lived in my 3,000 sq. ft. 2-story home in beautiful almost crime free Mission Viejo since 1995. It's currently appraised at about $900,000. Of course there are areas in Newport Beach that 6 million won't touch, but this child has no idea what he's talking about.

Sure it's already been said. If he feels so guilty about his inheritance, then just give the damn money away once he is the trustee. Simple fix, but not for his mental issues. Now that he has made his "problem" well known, every charity and scam artist will be knocking on his door.

This is a true Millenial. Self-wealth bad; struggling poverty good. Gawd, I hate this generation.

56 posted on 08/16/2018 7:09:47 AM PDT by A Navy Vet (I'm not Islamophobic - I'm Islamonauseous. Plus LGBTQxyz nauseous.)
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To: PCPOET7
I worked with a guy years ago who was independently wealthy. He was an heir of the founder of one of the big national restaurant chains. He worked a "regular job" simply because he found our work interesting. He was frequently admonished by our accounting people for failing to deposit his pay checks. LOL.

I never discussed his money with him, but there was one time where we worked alone together on a mundane task for several hours and talked about a lot of different things.

I kid you not: this guy was one of the most discontented people I've ever met. He was one of those people who "knew the price of everything and the value of nothing," and he complained constantly about the costs of things that he could have purchased many times over without even batting an eye. I mean, who gives a sh!t how much a concert ticket costs when you live in a $15 million brownstone on the Upper East Side of Manhattan?

57 posted on 08/16/2018 7:12:18 AM PDT by Alberta's Child ("The Russians escaped while we weren't watching them ... like Russians will.")
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To: ChicagoConservative27
Lane Fury is a moron.

His parents don't come across as having been too bright, either ... they let him get brainwashed with Marxist evil.

58 posted on 08/16/2018 7:14:06 AM PDT by NorthMountain (... the right of the people to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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To: ChicagoConservative27

Stupid twit.


59 posted on 08/16/2018 7:17:43 AM PDT by moovova
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To: ChicagoConservative27

He set off to prove inherited wealth makes you stupid. He succeeded.


60 posted on 08/16/2018 7:20:37 AM PDT by conejo99
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