” ... if you are dressing to entice a 17 year-old, you are also enticing a 71 year-old.”
I said almost the same thing to princess riverdawg when she was a teenager: “If you dress to attract the attention of one particular boy, you will most likely attract the unwanted attention of all the boys and many men.” Her sensible response was “yuck!”
I always told my girls “Dress so that the attention you’re getting is the attention you want.”