Is it? Look, if my son were excommunicated and died having never sought to come back to Christ, I would be sad for the fact that he was lost. It’s one thing if he simply died, it’s another to realize that it is your kid who went against God and didn’t return to the fold before he was called to meet him.
Well we have two tails (Raul and Francis) and only one dog. Which one shall do the wagging?