I mean that God insists he be transformed and will be disappointed (and bring him chastisement) if he refuses that action and won’t cooperate it with it.
God’s grace isn’t some open ended airy fairy thing, it insists on getting results.
He has no wiggle room: truth or consequences.
God knows we are human. The Apostle Paul, in Romans 7, gives me hope that someone who tries to listen to the Holy Spirit and do the Father’s will and falls short is not condemned or rejected by Him.
God knows that even though we are saved by Grace, we are still at war with the sin of the flesh and because of our human nature we will fall short every day. The glory of Jesus sacrifice for us means we are no longer judged under a law that no human can follow perfectly.