i’m a disaster too lol.
my Dad was a GREAT guy but he still looked like the other fathers’ father by the time i was 12 lol
i remember when i was 8 or 9.
he went into the hospital for heart surgery and i thought he was going to come out looking 30 lol
wasn’t sure what they did in the hospital :)
he looked them same
really good looking when he was younger before the stroke.
he died when i was 15 but i never had to see him paralyzed or not being able to talk, or, to be honest, after three heat attacks, a stroke, a missing kidny, and an anyeurism I never saw him look sick!!
Thanks for sharing:-) I’d tell you more about mine but it would take a book. Needless to say that as he got older than 50 PTSD took him over and he thought everyone was out to get him. He lived to be 82 but died alone and never told the folks who took him and his $ in that he had a family and was buried in potters field out in California when we finally found out what happened to him. I’m just so lucky to have my Wife and Kids and living the Middle Class American Dream! Nuff said.