When people leave the realm of their proper authority and start to encroach in areas that they don’t belong, especially into your own personal and private life, then they no longer deserve the truth. They have given up their honest role and have taken on dishonest identities and roles.
When this occurs, they no longer have the right to the truth and lying to them becomes acceptable.
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honesty is not the best policy in certain contexts: in dealing with nazis, criminals, tyrannical governments, and dictatorships.