The judge is an a$$whole, afraid of the wrath of angry fangtooth feminazis.
FL judges LIKED the idea of people being penalized for defending themselves. This judge sees this as judicial extortion by implying by force of law that family will be in danger if you assert your rights.
But I bet he’d make damn sure lesbians would get every penny of a judgment they say is due them for anyone who wouldn’t bake them a damn cake.