There is nothing “gay” about being a homosexual. He has probably been molested......VERY SAD.
They hijacked a perfectly good word from the English language and corrupted it so that it is rarely used in any other context save to designate sexual preference.
The same has been done with the rainbow.
If not physically molested, then emotionally or spiritually.
Some of these sad souls are destined later in their lives to have saving encounters with the Lord, and then a pitched spiritual battle will result. Satan hates to stop toying with what had been his prey. He is a very sore, bitter loser. But the grace of the Lord will always pull ahead of any sin at that point.
There was actually a point to the old derogatory term “fag.” Originally it meant a very servile person, or to subject a person to extreme servility. Well these people (and actually everybody who is not saved, though they may not realize it yet) are fags — fags of Satan.
Far from wishing them a fiery doom of resolute rebellion, God desires them to see the day of their independence. But if they will not accept the offer of saving grace, there is no other choice left for them.