"People who go around proclaiming their pride are really ashamed of themselves."
Precisely correct.
If truly comfortable they would just go to work, commute home, make dinner, go to the gym, watch television, and go to sleep...all to repeat it the next day and the next.
Good grief, I have had gay classmates, gay coworkers, gay customers...why do they remotely think anyone CARES what they do in the privacy of their homes? They can be so self-important, sheesh.