Tragic story. The first thing that came to mind was why was she living with the Grandmother? There was no mention of a Mother or a Father. We have a 15 year old Daughter and a 12 year old Son. We’ve done everything possible to ensure that not only they know better than to associate with dirt bags but that they also are not raised in an environment that exposes them to this type of risk.
Years ago when they were younger we live in a larger urban area. We picked up and moved across the State to a more rural area to ensure they would grow up in a better environment. It cost us a lot, including great career opportunities, to do so but we cut back where needed to be able to absorb the cost.
We may not love our jobs, have brand new shiny cars, cable, or all of the most high tech gadgets but our kids are growing up in a safe environment which is more rewarding than anything else.
Even with the comfort of a nice town we are always on guard. We know who our kids associate with and we know about them. We know the potential trouble makers and our kids were raised smart enough not to associate with them. My wife stays home while I work so our kids have the needed guidance and support when I’m working days or weeks of long hours. Two German Shepherds guarantee that nobody will be breaking into our house without an alert going off and an assortment of tools, along with the knowledge to use them, to ensure we can stop most any threat.
Too many people choose a fancy lifestyle and high tech gadgets over the the proper upbringing, safety, and security of their families. We are not those people. I’d say we have our priorities in order.
I’m not saying her Grandmother was a bad person but there is always a way out of a bad environment. You just have to be willing to sacrifice to get there.
Wow, I hope you didn’t throw your back out, patting it so hard!
You are a shining example of everything all people everywhere should be aware of and applaud! /sarcasm
You have done a lot for your children. And it is important. Good.