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Why men won't marry you
Fox News ^ | May 1, 2015 | Suzanne Venker

Posted on 05/06/2015 8:24:21 PM PDT by fkabuckeyesrule

That’s a question Peter Lloyd tackles in a series in London’s Daily Mail about Britain’s marriage rate, which is at its lowest level since 1895. “The state of matrimony is not just ailing. It is dying out faster than a mobile phone battery,” Lloyd writes. “For an army of women, Mr. Right is simply not there, no matter how hard they look for him.”

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TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: bachelor; divorce; gayagenda; homosexualagenda; marriage; singles
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To: BJ1
It's very difficult for woman who hold those values today to even express that they're traditional. They get hammered by woman for suggesting such, and men know that means no sex before marriage so at best the woman is no more than a challenge to win over sexually.

What we have today is “live-ins”. Thus the man protects his wallet.....the woman, if they have children, have a temporary sense of security. I say temporary because very ,very, few woman will accept just living together indefinitely. They all eventually want more. There are traditional American woman but you won't find them very often admitting so publicly.

121 posted on 05/06/2015 10:12:06 PM PDT by caww
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To: Spktyr
How do I know? I’m the child of one of these divorces.

Amen, brother.

My dad was a real bastard until I actually asked him why he left.

He also reminded me that he knew EXACTLY what was going to happen if he left...and off to Vietnam Nam he went!

When a man would rather have little yellow people shoot at him than stay with your mom: that speaks to me!

122 posted on 05/06/2015 10:12:49 PM PDT by papertyger (Gun fighting is the American martial art.)
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To: TexasGator
RE:”The B is gone, he probably has fewer expenses and can sleep-in on Sundays after a night out with boys.”

I don't know what type of cold heart you have but some men actually love their kids.

To have them stole from them with their paychecks too and her rewarded for destroying the family is obscene.

123 posted on 05/06/2015 10:13:12 PM PDT by sickoflibs (King Obama : 'The debate is over. The time for talk is over. Just follow my commands you serfs""')
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To: sickoflibs; IluvmyKalashnikov

Yes, what about the post? The part where I criticize people who support feminists? If you can read English it’s pretty clear I am criticizing feminists.


124 posted on 05/06/2015 10:13:36 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: TexasGator

Assets the man owned prior to the marriage. Obviously, things bought during the marriage often should be split 50/50.

However, the way courts are now, things like his motorcycle collection, his record collection, things he had before the relationship? Sorry, she gets half anyway.

If he wants half of her paintings? Nope, sorry, no way.

Spend few days observing family courts doing divorces if you don’t believe me. Seriously, go and watch. I have. It’s eye opening.

By the way, I also do IT work for several Dallas area divorce attorneys. They *all* agree that the way the system is now the man gets utterly screwed in a divorce.


125 posted on 05/06/2015 10:15:00 PM PDT by Spktyr (Overwhelmingly superior firepower and the willingness to use it is the only proven peace solution.)
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To: ziravan

If all the single women out there are dropping their drawers on the third date, and let’s say she’s 30. I mean, the number of men who have gone before is staggering.


126 posted on 05/06/2015 10:15:19 PM PDT by Bodleian_Girl (Baltimore needs more Armed Koreans)
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To: IluvmyKalashnikov

.....” marriage is simply not worth the financial risk in my opinion”......

Obviously today many men and women agree with you. .....but it sounds like you see marriage more as a financial investment/risk.


127 posted on 05/06/2015 10:16:37 PM PDT by caww
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To: TexasGator

No, that’s not true. I love my boy. I’m not talking about whether or not I want more, I’d hate to lose him. I’m just saying I don’t wanna pay her way until I’m dead because I married a sweetheart who acts the part, but a couple years in decides to divorce out of nowhere seemingly for no reason with the added possibility of losing Sean.


128 posted on 05/06/2015 10:17:26 PM PDT by IluvmyKalashnikov
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To: Bodleian_Girl

>>>If all the single women out there are dropping their drawers on the third date, and let’s say she’s 30. I mean, the number of men who have gone before is staggering.<<<

I think a woman who’s been used by many men like that is disgusting and repulsive. But I think I’m in the minority. Otherwise, how do women get so many sex partners? I’m curious what you guys think about number of past sex partners. Does it matter for the man? For the woman?


129 posted on 05/06/2015 10:20:29 PM PDT by BJ1
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To: Jack Hydrazine
The Matrix reference is itself an elaboration of a reference to Alice in Wonderland from Jefferson Airplane's 1967, White Rabbit [lyrics, Grace Slick]:

One pill makes you larger
And one pill makes you small
And the ones that mother gives you
Don't do anything at all
Go ask Alice
When she's ten feet tall
And if you go chasing rabbits
And you know you're going to fall
Tell 'em a hookah-smoking caterpillar
Has given you the call
Call Alice
When she was just small
When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving low
Go ask Alice
I think she'll know
When logic and proportion
Have fallen sloppy dead
And the White Knight is talking backwards
And the Red Queen's off with her head
Remember what the dormouse said
Feed your head
Feed your head

Morpheus is indeed offering Neo a choice between a pill that feeds his head, and one that doesn't do anything at all.

130 posted on 05/06/2015 10:22:02 PM PDT by FredZarguna (On your deathbed you will receive total consciousness. So I got that goin' for me.)
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To: Spktyr

“some of the mens’ rights groups have the actual stats”

I would like to see that.


131 posted on 05/06/2015 10:23:19 PM PDT by TexasGator
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To: fkabuckeyesrule

132 posted on 05/06/2015 10:23:34 PM PDT by Stand Watch Listen (When the going gets tough...the Low Information President Obola (LIPO) goes golfing)
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To: Spktyr

I once had a woman “suggest” I needed to trade my sports car for a “family” car.
I have several stories like that during my dating period after divorce.


133 posted on 05/06/2015 10:25:08 PM PDT by razorback-bert (Due to the high price of ammo, no warning shot will be fired.)
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To: Spktyr
One problem: In a modern divorce, the man doesn’t get half the woman’s stuff. The woman gets to keep all her stuff and get half or more of the man’s stuff.

Oh B.S. I do appraisals for divorces; that's total crap. The real issue is that men spend the collective family money on expensive things that maintain value (no problem with that...it assets)...and then lay claim to those items.

You just wanted to keep all the cars, guns, tools, boats, etc. I'm sure if you had fought for the $50 sofa, $500 worth of used clothes or the $5 Tupperware, you could have had half.

134 posted on 05/06/2015 10:26:59 PM PDT by garandgal
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To: Spktyr

“However, the way courts are now, things like his motorcycle collection, his record collection, things he had before the relationship? Sorry, she gets half anyway.”

Uh, Texas is a community property state. Pre-marital assets are excluded from the divorce settlements. Been there, done that.


135 posted on 05/06/2015 10:27:15 PM PDT by TexasGator
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To: dp0622

55& of American women voted for Obama.
0% of cats voted for Obama.
Therefore cats are smarter than 55% of American women. And there’s 55% right there that are automatically bad candidates for marriage.


136 posted on 05/06/2015 10:27:34 PM PDT by Spktyr (Overwhelmingly superior firepower and the willingness to use it is the only proven peace solution.)
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To: TexasGator

They’re supposed to be, yes. In reality? Not so much.

Go watch the courts in person. You might be surprised.


137 posted on 05/06/2015 10:28:29 PM PDT by Spktyr (Overwhelmingly superior firepower and the willingness to use it is the only proven peace solution.)
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To: All

Sigh, after reading this thread I’d have to agree, it hardly seems worth it to get married.


138 posted on 05/06/2015 10:29:37 PM PDT by Bodleian_Girl (Baltimore needs more Armed Koreans)
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To: Spktyr

Yes it is good women have the right to vote, but I will say it; women voting is the main reason this country shifted to the far left.
Most are natural socialist by nature compared to most men.


139 posted on 05/06/2015 10:30:29 PM PDT by A CA Guy ( God Bless America, God Bless and keep safe our fighting men and women.)
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To: IluvmyKalashnikov

“I’m just saying I don’t wanna pay her way until I’m dead “

If any alimony, it is for a limited duration. For a marriage of couple of years it would not be too severe.

Child support ends when the kid reaches the age of majority.

If you stayed married you would probably be supporting your kid in your house till he was 26.


140 posted on 05/06/2015 10:30:31 PM PDT by TexasGator
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