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Should the Presidency Hang on a Hypothetical Gay Wedding Invitation?
Townhall.com ^ | April 24, 2015 | S.E Cupp

Posted on 04/24/2015 7:09:52 AM PDT by Kaslin

In a year and a half, Americans will elect a new president. What issues will be foremost in their minds? Allow me to set the table for you:

The U.S. economic recovery is anemic at best, with long-term joblessness still a major problem confronting millions of Americans. Income inequality has widened, and poverty has increased.

In the past six years, scandal has shaken the VA, the IRS, ATF, the Justice Department and most recently the DEA, which is why it's not surprising that Americans name "government" the most important problem facing the country today, according to Gallup.

Overseas, the Islamic State now holds huge swaths of Iraq and Syria, an area larger than many countries, and the group continues to recruit Westerners to join in its murderous rampage. Iran is emerging as a dominant power in the Middle East, and Russia is again bullying Eastern Europe.

And yet with all of this (and plenty more) in the background, some in the media believe the most pressing question to ask the 2016 Republican contenders and would-be contenders is: Would you attend a gay wedding?

If this were an innocent question, a normal reaction from someone vying to be the leader of the free world might be, "Huh?" But the question is far from guileless, and so the contenders have felt compelled to oblige.

Marco Rubio says he would, Scott Walker says he already has, Rick Perry says he probably would and Rick Santorum says he would not. Ted Cruz is thus far the only contender who has dared to suggest that there may be more important problems facing the nation than whether or not he graces a hypothetical gay couple with his presence.

As he is wont to do, Jon Stewart summed it up best: "This election is going to boil down to, Who do you trust to pick up the phone at 3 a.m. -- and RSVP to a gay wedding?"

What must our neighbors and friends overseas be thinking of us? We are the greatest superpower on the planet, and we're worried about whether or not our future president would show up at a gay wedding?

It's almost too ripe for mockery to take it seriously. Yet take it seriously we must, for a few important reasons.

As Ben Domenech has pointed out, implied in the question is the troubling belief that freedom of association should suddenly be conditional. "Conservatives and (most) libertarians believe people ought to be able to decide whether to freely associate with others themselves," he wrote in the Federalist. They should not be "dragooned."

I'm a conservative who supports gay marriage. I've been to gay weddings, and they were lovely. But I believe others should have the permission to be uncomfortable or unwilling -- which, incidentally, is not the same thing as bigoted.

The second problem is that the gay rights community isn't driving this line of questioning. The advocates I know don't think the next great achievement of equality will be getting a conservative presidential candidate to their wedding. Rather, the media are driving it, for their own reasons. Remember the rape-related comments that sank two Republican candidates for Senate in 2012? The media want more gaffes that they can use to generate controversy and mold it to fit established narratives.

Very well, but the most troubling part of this whole clown show is that it is so blithely hypocritical.

President Obama and the Democrats' presumptive nominee, Hillary Clinton, have attended countless events, brokered dozens of deals, and exchanged all sorts of sordid goods with state actors who lock away gay people, behead them and throw them off buildings.

In 2014, Obama held the first ever U.S.-Africa summit, where he welcomed some of the world's most homophobic dictators to the White House, rolling out a literal red carpet and posing for photos with tyrants likeGambia's Yahya Jammeh, who has vowed to "cut off the head" of homosexuals in his country, and Nigeria'sGoodluck Jonathan, who has jailed dozens of homosexuals in his country.

Hillary Clinton has accepted millions in donations from countries like Saudi Arabia, where homosexuality is illegal and punishable by death.

If Clinton can accept money from countries where gay people are stoned to death, and President Obama can open the White House to dictators who promise to cut off their heads, can't Rick Santorum recuse himself from attending a gay wedding?

It's time to get our priorities straight. My advice to the candidates: Don't dignify stupid questions with real answers. It's beneath the office you are seeking.


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To: Morpheus2009

“Actually, just say yes and throw other issues back at them.”

I would answer, “It’s a states issue, and what does this have to do with 47 million people on food stamps, 90 million people out of the job force and millions of homeless? Wouldn’t it be selfish of a President whose main concern is whether Dave and Bruce have a piece of paper? And for that matter, isn’t this question pushing an agenda rather than asking a real question?”

Force it back on them.


21 posted on 04/24/2015 8:25:54 AM PDT by EQAndyBuzz (two if by van, one if by broom)
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To: G Larry

“If you don’t have the courage to stand up and say “NO!” then you don’t deserve my support.”

I’ll have to agree with you. It does no good to whine about a question being asked to smear someone. It has always been done; it will always be done. If you say you are against gay marriage (which means you think it is wrong) and then say you would attend a gay marriage (which means you are agreeing with it) then you are saying one of your positions on the concept is a lie. The voter has to guess which one.


22 posted on 04/24/2015 8:41:21 AM PDT by odawg
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To: Kaslin

Cupp is exactly right. The Republican candidates should not fall into the DNC/MSM trap like they did in 2012.


23 posted on 04/24/2015 8:55:51 AM PDT by Verginius Rufus
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To: Kaslin
Yes it did.


24 posted on 04/24/2015 8:55:52 AM PDT by Baynative (We are experiencing the type of government the founders warned us about.)
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To: Kaslin
When a candidate from YOUR party wins an election than I am willing to pay attention to you. Until then not

Two words: "Paul LePage". Ignored what the lefties did, and cleaned up in Maine!

... Can you hear me now?

25 posted on 04/24/2015 9:44:35 AM PDT by Fido969
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To: afsnco
Our nation is already under God’s judgment, with His wrath falling on us, turning our formerly obedient and prosperous nation into a bankrupt...

Although I agree totally with your position, I refuse to feed the insanity and irrationality of the anti-religion crowd by arguing from any religion.
There are more than enough arguments from secular philosophy and historical bad examples to persuasively appeal to the mentally sane and informed. I truly believe that we still outnumber the pervert pro-sodomy sickos, whatever their position in life might be.

26 posted on 04/24/2015 11:04:54 AM PDT by publius911 (If you like Obamacare, You'll LOVE ObamaWeb.)
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To: Baynative
If that photo is genuine, and the image is what I think it is, all I can say is...

Really classy.
Embarrassing, too.

27 posted on 04/24/2015 11:11:17 AM PDT by publius911 (If you like Obamacare, You'll LOVE ObamaWeb.)
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To: publius911

I hope you’re right, but I see no evidence of it. The American people are so depraved they elected the Obamanation. Twice. The electorate tends to elect candidates that reflect their own righteousness, or their own depravity.


28 posted on 04/24/2015 11:34:44 AM PDT by afsnco
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To: afsnco

He was elected maaaybe once.

The second time was voter fraud. No doubt in my mind..


29 posted on 04/24/2015 11:37:06 AM PDT by ConservativeMan55 (In America, we don't do pin pricks. But sometimes we elect them.)
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To: publius911

You can give a person money, but you can’t give them class or grace.


30 posted on 04/24/2015 1:07:12 PM PDT by Baynative (We are experiencing the type of government the founders warned us about.)
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