Oh waa, you take a request for courtesy (some of those vapes smell weird) as tantamount to the Christian baker being legally browbeat into playing a part in celebrating something that isn’t a wedding like it is.
It stopped being a “request for courtesy” when the government browbeat, at the point of a gun, private business owners into no longer being able to cater to smokers.
That sounds awefully similar to the calls for a “request for courtesy” that everyone should be catered to, at the expense of the business owner’s rights. It won’t be long until the government browbeats those businesses, at the point of a gun, to comply.
Both are nothing more than an outright attack on the rights of the business owner. Your failure to recognize that does not make it less so.