I got married in my 20’s and have been married 20 years this year. There is no way I would want to go courting/dating again. It is way to complicated now.
We used to have a laugh with the opposite sex, date them, and treat a girl good. Too confusing today.
My boy's 20-year marriage just went out the window when his wife fell in love with a country singer 15 years her junior. Luckily the divorce was amicable and he still has his hide intact.
He started checking out the dating services on the Internet and some of the tales he tells me reinforces your opinion. The whole game has changed and I would not want to be in his shoes.