[Drew68]

But I’m sorry, I don’t think being gay is a choice.

I don't either. While I believe there are straight people (mostly women, few men) who "experiment" with homosexuality in their teens and 20s, by and large, I agree that most gay people were born that way.

[PeterPrinciple]

by and large, I agree that most gay people were born that way.

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Behaviors are complex and behaviors can be modified.

1) The FIRST QUESTION is, is it appropriate behavior, not what causes it.

Then we discuss causes and ways to modify.

I suggest you study imprinting. Exposure can and will imprint the behavior.