For what it’s worth, I know a young man raised by a lesbian couple (I worked with one of them & became friends). They did a terrific job
That's the hard thing for many people to remember. People aren't statistics, and while claims about what the "average" might have some technical truth to them, individual variation is such that their applicability to any individual family is almost zilch.
ounds like you believe that if one Christian family moves into a neighborhood with a mosque and an synagogue, they should be able to silence the call to prayer and demand that Jewish businesses sell pork and stay open on Friday.
You have the process of forming public policy entirely backwards. Because a thimbleful of cases are the exception, the vast majority should not have to have their children sexualized in schools, flooded with gay propaganda, subjected to harassment for their family's religious beliefs, bullied by school administrators and preyed upon by transexuals in bathrooms, Yet that's what happens when government tries to make the exception the rule and calls all pre-existing normalcy a form of bigotry, ignorance or oppression.