hopefully. and likely theologically correct is the view that the dearly departed are not aware of the conditions here...
Heaven would not be such a wonderful place were those inhabiting same forced to take note of the hell on earth
worked with a homosexual woman from NY who said she was married to her wife.
In the end I corrected her that in this state she is not married which brought her to throw a tantrum and demanded me to accept it.
I did not.