Posted on 12/08/2014 10:36:04 AM PST by wagglebee
Last January, I was traveling on business, staying in a little hotel in a college town. I like to think I’m usually more aware of my surroundings, but it was so snowy and windy that I wouldn’t have heard his footsteps even if he had he been stomping. It happened so fast. I got the door open, turned around to close it, and he was there – a huge man. My first instinct wasn’t fear, just confusion. In an instant, he punched me in the face. I don’t remember being dragged from the room, but I was found in the stairwell. I don’t know why — maybe I was trying to go for help.
The rape kit came back negative for HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, herpes, and dozens of other things I’d never heard of. God is gracious.
The following month, I was scheduled to work on a cruise ship. Struck with dysentery on day two and not getting better with antibiotics, I was taken to what passes for a hospital when we docked in Cartagena, Colombia. Concerned about intestinal obstruction, I was given an ultrasound. And we saw the pea — my son. Happy Valentine’s Day.
Back on the ship, I told the doctors an abbreviated version of my story, which resulted in me being quarantined. Suicide watch? In danger of a psychotic break that will have me running naked across the shuffleboard courts? Who knows. What I know is that I spent the next week listening to a team of very well meaning doctors and nurses console me with how “easy” it would be to “take care of it” — to kill the child. To start over. Easy???
There were a lot of things discussed over scratchy, tearful transatlantic phone calls home that week, but the possibility of “taking care of it” never came off my lips. Or my husband’s. When I told him I was pregnant, he said with his voice calm and steady, “Okay. Okay . . . all right . . . this is all right.” I asked him, “What do you MEAN this is all right?” “I mean we can do this. We’ll get through this. It’ll be okay. And, . . . I love babies. We’re going to have another baby. Sweetheart, this is a gift. This is something wonderful from something terrible. We can DO this.” And I began to feel the stirrings of joy for the new life in my womb, blossoming under my heart. That new love that would grow so fierce it overwhelmed any trepidation or angst. And my husband was right. We could do it.
On my last morning aboard the ship, I said to this caring team, “If you ever think about this again, if you ever wonder what happened to me — I had a beautiful baby in October 2014.” Their reaction . . . , the looks on their faces . . . , the doctor who had pushed abortion more vehemently than the others — she had tears in her eyes. For the first time, I thought of how God can use this, this nightmare I’d endured. Use me.
I live in North Carolina. My OB who delivered my last two children was running in the Republican primary for U.S. Senate. He talks to people all the time who challenge him with the “What about in cases of rape?” question. What about them? My son will have a voice. Until he can use it, it’s my responsibility — my privilege — to speak for him. That’s my story.
During my pregnancy, I was in and out of the hospital for a couple of months – more in than out. I had preeclampsia, high blood pressure and uncontrolled seizures. It was terrifying at 26 weeks when they admitted me saying they might have to deliver that night — terrifying because I desperately wanted my son to live! We got past that fear. I had strict bed rest, but was home. Every week we made it further was awesome, knowing how glad I’d be once he got here safely in my arms. Emotionally, I was doing very well.
We were working with a really godly team of doctors. It’s just a matter of trusting utterly. This wasn’t new. I’d felt completely out of control since the assault in January — not that “control” is ever anything but an illusion, but, you know. 8-1/2 months ago the world upended and hadn’t righted since — until my son was born. It’s not a bad thing. It keeps me on my knees, keeps me from my arrogant, self reliant “It’s okay, God. I got this” attitude, which I’m so quick to adopt.
Our little boy may have been conceived in violence, but he is a gift from God — a delicious gift that filled the hole in our family that we never realized was there. He made us complete.
I’m so thankful to have been connected to other mothers who became pregnant by rape as well. We are survivors. Not victims. My son has healed me.
The pressure to abort from the medical community was extremely eye opening to me. So many times I was told how “simple” it would be and how quickly I could just “get on with my life” once it was over. It was heartbreaking to have to repeatedly hear it. Even some friends thought keeping the baby was a mistake — that I wouldn’t be able to handle things emotionally. Every time we, as rape survivor mothers, share our stories, we are strengthened as we strengthen others. . . . And who knows what lives might be spared?
LifeNews Note: Jennifer Christie is a wife and mother of 5, and a blogger for www.savethe1.com.
Jim, Age of Reason is once again pushing abortion. See posts 99 and 100.
I thought your first post on this thread was about as low as a person could go.
I was wrong.
Your ping post to me is about the lowest, saddest most ignorant post I believe I’ve ever read, on this site.
A baby....ANY baby....is a gift from God....an innocent gift from God. Who are you to say that a baby conceived - by any situation - is going to become a rapist...and should be “eradicated from the face of the Earth”??
Look at ALL of the good that babies/children/adults of rape have done on this Earth. Post #18 is a great example, and completely destroys your sick “theory” that “rapist genes pass on to the next generation”.
I will pray for your heart to be changed.
Jim,
Banish me if you like. It is your site.
well, bye
“This woman’s genes approve that the rapist impregnated her, and so make her want to have the baby.”
That’s crazy talk!
I've read some pretty disgusting posts here, but you hit a new low with this one.
By having the rapist’s baby, the so called rape victim is rewarding the genes of the rapist by helping to pass those genes on to the next generation.
I can see that you are one of these Darwinist-Eugenicists who believes that the "inferior" genes can be bred out of people and the result will then be a sort of "master race." Now, where have I heard that before?
And the result will be more women raped.
I see. The North Koreans are big believers in punishing three generations of a family to remove the "unredeemable" from society. According to the North Korean government this has resulted in a "worker's paradise" where there is no crime and everyone is happy all the time.
She should be so deeply offended by anything associated with the rapist, that she would want him and his spawn eradicated from the face of the earth.
By that logic we could go back in your family tree and find someone guilty of a heinous crime and demand that YOU be eradicated from the face of the earth.
To do otherwise, is to reward those genes that made that man rape.
You are as vile as they come.
the application of Evolutionary biology.
Certainly doesn’t say much about about what having the baby says or means about the birthmother as far as caring and altruism.
Woman as vessel.
wow
Does that include herself? Would you approve of her being so "deeply offended by anything associated with the rapist" that she should kill herself too?
IATZ
Wow. Some of his comments really sucked.
And yet they never seem to want to abort themselves. Your kids, my kids, black kids, mexican kids, their own kids...but never themselves.
It’s just semantics... a really late term abortion... and they are fine with those late term things. But they never self abort.
He is a truly vile person. I’ve been following wagglebee’s (courtesy ping) arguments
from the beginning of this thread, and he definitely had the upper hand throughout.
Good thing Age of Reason doesn’t have life-or-death power over anybody but himself.
Perhaps he’ll exercise that power one day...
I can assure you that he's over on some anti-FReeper cesspool getting high fives for his zot.
Like any good liberal you have just removed choice and responsibility from the rapist, it's genetic and he can't stop/control it.
You are a prime example of what's wrong with liberals, their logic and REASON.
Eugenicists never notice that their “science” is very destructive because
they tend literally to throw the baby out with the bath water.
Some late-term self-abort, but they will regret it immediately when the
Hellfire starts licking at their toes, and there is no escape.
How many geniuses and mankind savers were among the 55 million
babies murdered in the womb by abortionists?
That’s a gif from Game of Thrones. I didn’t make it, for it was available
online when I was searching for ZOT gifs.
Or... Somebody might have given it to me. I’m old. I forget stuff.
If he comes back, he’ll get another one about which to brag.
Hi, DJ. :)
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