In liberal London, gayness means the gaudy print of Judy Garland that a priest friend of mine has on his wall. In Kampala it means anal sex.
Who is the author kidding -- without anal sex there is no "gay" identity.
C’mon. I’m supposing a lot of the lady homosexuals don’t do anal.
Bingo… whenever I get into a discussion about ‘gay’ stuff, the first thing that I do is make sure that the word ‘gay’ is eradicated from the discussion and then when describing ‘gay’ individuals, I only use the phrase…. “those who claim to be sexually attracted to their own sex”. Most people that want to argue that ‘homosexuality is just fine and just another form of sexual expression’ tend to only want to engage in discussions about ‘feelings, love, natural tendencies, equal rights, caring for each other” and the suchlike blah blah blah fluff that is as shallow as a kiddie pool. If the discussion is about marriage, then I remind the person I’m speaking with that the purpose of marriage is to allow the sexual characteristics that are innate to all humans to be expressed and manifested in a way that is God approved….and that the only unique thing about marriage is in fact the sexual act. Everything else is just about normal life and friendship etc. Sex is the essential ingredient…without it, there is no marriage. With it, the marriage and individuals stay healthy and thrive. Having regular sexual relations and releases is humankind’s normal state of being and marriage is the vehicle by which that can happen in a God approved way. And that is the case for ALL male-female marriages…. even those for which it’s not even possible anymore to have sexual intercourse because of age or health. At that point, I ask the question “so do you think that anal sex is a suitable, healthy, natural and normative form of sexual expression for all people? Because since sexual intercourse is the essential ingredient of all marriages, your answer has to be yes, right?”
The key here is that when arguing with anybody about homosexuality, always take them back to the sex act itself…. you’ll soon find out that their argument falls apart if for no other reason then it’s impossible to argue that anal sex is a healthy state of being.
BINGO!! Homosexuality is defined by the sex act. Pictures on the wall have nothing to do with it.
Oh C’mon Ben, there is so much to gay identity besides checking the oil in their motor. It is worshipping at the altar of St. Judy St. Madonna & St. Diana Ross. It’s about getting completely nauseous when someone you’re hanging out with just doesn’t have the right outfit on. And every gay man must have gaydar-—the esp-like ability to scan a room in 20 seconds and tell who is gay and who isn’t. Broaden your horizons Ben lmfao