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‘Withholding Sex’ Now Considered ‘Sexual Violence’ at University of Michigan
National Review ^ | 09/27/2014 | Katherine Timpf

Posted on 09/27/2014 9:49:48 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

The University of Michigan has released a list of relationship behaviors that it considers violent and abusive — including “withholding sex.”

“Discounting the partner’s feelings regarding sex,” “criticizing the partner sexually,” and “having sex with other people” are also examples of “sexual violence,” according to the list.

The school also offers definitions of domestic abuse. Under the section for “verbal or psychological abuse,” it states that not only is “insulting the partner” considered “abuse,” so is “ignoring the partner’s feelings.”

Janet Bloomfield, social media director for A Voice for Men, explained the dangers of such broad definitions of “violence” in an e-mail to the College Fix.

“When things like ‘withholding sex’ and ‘ignoring a partner’s feelings’ are framed as a pattern of behavior that is abusive, they are not only pathologizing normal relationship behaviors, but they are opening the door for vindictive or spurned partners to make allegations that can have profound effects for the accused,” she said.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; US: Michigan
KEYWORDS: college; michigan; sex; violence
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1 posted on 09/27/2014 9:49:48 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
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To: SeekAndFind

Having sex is rape and now not having sex is rape. It’s like Global Warming.


2 posted on 09/27/2014 9:51:18 AM PDT by Paine in the Neck (Socialism consumes EVERYTHING)
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To: Paine in the Neck

The world is fast going mad…………...


3 posted on 09/27/2014 9:53:02 AM PDT by basil (2ASisters.org)
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To: SeekAndFind
“When things like ‘withholding sex’ and ‘ignoring a partner’s feelings’ are framed as a pattern of behavior that is abusive, they are not only pathologizing normal relationship behaviors, but they are opening the door for vindictive or spurned partners to make allegations that can have profound effects for the accused,” she said.

Isn't that obvious to anyone with 2+ brain cells ??

4 posted on 09/27/2014 9:53:43 AM PDT by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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To: Paine in the Neck

It has become an Alice in Wonderland world. As upsidedown as conservatives who insist that voting for Democrats is the way to conservative victory.


5 posted on 09/27/2014 9:54:19 AM PDT by centurion316
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To: SeekAndFind

Damned if you screw; damned if you don’t.


6 posted on 09/27/2014 9:55:52 AM PDT by moovova
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To: SeekAndFind

Okay, then my wife is abusing me? Got it.


7 posted on 09/27/2014 9:57:00 AM PDT by Thorliveshere (Minnesota Survivor)
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To: SeekAndFind

““Discounting the partner’s feelings regarding sex,” “criticizing the partner sexually,” and “having sex with other people” are also examples of “sexual violence,” according to the list. “

Madness !

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8 posted on 09/27/2014 9:58:24 AM PDT by Mears
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To: Paine in the Neck

Worse, actually, most of these issues that they bring are far more dumb to compare to rape than arguing for AGW


9 posted on 09/27/2014 9:58:48 AM PDT by Morpheus2009
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"‘Withholding Sex’ Now Considered ‘Sexual Violence’ at University of Michigan"

Geez- I've been a victim for 25 years! Where can we get a class action suit going against women in general?

10 posted on 09/27/2014 9:59:06 AM PDT by Slump Tester (What if I'm pregnant Teddy? Errr-ahh -Calm down Mary Jo, we'll cross that bridge when we come to it)
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To: Mears

Cheating on your spouse is wrong, but it’s not rape unless it was violently forced.


11 posted on 09/27/2014 9:59:40 AM PDT by Morpheus2009
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To: Thorliveshere

I’m sure this is only supposed to be valid from a female or homosexual perspective, given the source.


12 posted on 09/27/2014 9:59:41 AM PDT by RegulatorCountry
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To: Slump Tester

You beat me to it. Finally I’m a victim!


13 posted on 09/27/2014 10:00:43 AM PDT by MNDude
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To: SeekAndFind
Don't bother to try and analyze this rule logically. It can't be done. The point of this rule, like all rules dictated by the left, is to promote guilt. You are guilty no matter what you do.

“Did you really think we want those laws observed?" said Dr. Ferris. "We want them to be broken. You'd better get it straight that it's not a bunch of boy scouts you're up against... We're after power and we mean it... There's no way to rule innocent men. The only power any government has is the power to crack down on criminals. Well, when there aren't enough criminals one makes them. One declares so many things to be a crime that it becomes impossible for men to live without breaking laws. Who wants a nation of law-abiding citizens? What's there in that for anyone? But just pass the kind of laws that can neither be observed nor enforced or objectively interpreted – and you create a nation of law-breakers – and then you cash in on guilt. Now that's the system, Mr. Reardon, that's the game, and once you understand it, you'll be much easier to deal with.”
(Atlas Shrugged)

14 posted on 09/27/2014 10:01:32 AM PDT by Flick Lives ("I can't believe it's not Fascism!")
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To: SeekAndFind

So……. first make traditional marriage irrelevant and mock those who believe in the sanctity of it, then come up with some stupid ‘rules of engagement’ as a third party for a bunch of young people involved in indiscriminate sex. Sure, this will make sense….. about as sensible as trying to teach etiquette to a bunch of hogs feeding at a trough.


15 posted on 09/27/2014 10:06:39 AM PDT by hecticskeptic (In life it's important to know what you believeÂ….but more more importantly, why you believe it.)
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To: Thorliveshere

I need to keep this news from my husband....the begging was bad before...


16 posted on 09/27/2014 10:08:42 AM PDT by NotQuiteCricket (Washington Post: NFL Should Hire Eric Holder to Rebuild Public Trust)
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To: SeekAndFind

We were taught at Michigan State that sex, while rare, with a UM women was uninspiring, at best; boring, normal. I know that Michigan college boys raided the local high schools for dates. Some of the young women we water-skiied with “up north” told me this while I was still in High School.


17 posted on 09/27/2014 10:11:23 AM PDT by Ace's Dad (Proud grandpa of a "Brit Chick" named Poppy Loucks (Call sign "Popsickle").)
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To: SeekAndFind

Isn’t the University of Michigan where they used to have the ‘Naked Mile’?


18 posted on 09/27/2014 10:12:12 AM PDT by real saxophonist (Youtube + Twitter + Facebook = YouTwitFace.com)
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To: real saxophonist

yes, but it’s hard to have sex when you’re jogging.


19 posted on 09/27/2014 10:12:57 AM PDT by morphing libertarian
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To: morphing libertarian

I’ll be here through the weekend.

Don’t forget to tip the moderators.


20 posted on 09/27/2014 10:13:39 AM PDT by morphing libertarian
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