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Why Great Husbands Are Being Abandoned
Psychology Today ^ | 13 August 2014 | Randi Gunther, Ph.D

Posted on 08/15/2014 3:47:26 PM PDT by Drew68

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To: Drew68

Meh. P*ssies talking to p*ssies about p*ssies.

Patriarchy and matriarchy both have power. Different, but equal, and thus has always been the case. To diminish one is to diminish the other, and neither sex realizes their full potential. Women, in insisting an equal role and participation in patriarchy have lost the power of the matriarch. And men, chasing after these very women, have ceded the power of the patriarch. Now, there is neither, but only the hapless duality of the androgen... or the meaningless sufficiency of the hermaphrodite.

What an unfortunate waste.


41 posted on 08/15/2014 5:57:14 PM PDT by roamer_1 (Globalism is just socialism in a business suit.)
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To: Lizavetta
I'll bet he is no longer the courting handsome in-shape man she married.

Apparently the author of the article disagrees with you.

No doubt she would have at least touched on your "laundry list" if it had any bearing on her thesis.

42 posted on 08/15/2014 6:03:12 PM PDT by papertyger (Those who don't fight evil hate those who do)
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To: Drew68

I’ll never marry again.


43 posted on 08/15/2014 6:03:29 PM PDT by muir_redwoods (When I first read it, " Atlas Shrugged" was fiction)
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To: papertyger; Lizavetta
Apparently the author of the article disagrees with you.

No doubt she would have at least touched on your "laundry list" if it had any bearing on her thesis.

Well, just open your eyes and look around at what passes for middle-aged men these days. Too many of them are fat, flabby, unfit and physically lazy. A lot of them could wear bras. They are not like their grandfathers. They cannot take care of themselves physically.

Why shouldn't their wives find them to be repulsive?

44 posted on 08/15/2014 6:09:16 PM PDT by Tau Food (Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.)
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To: roamer_1
Now, there is neither, but only the hapless duality of the androgen... or the meaningless sufficiency of the hermaphrodite.

Sounds like you've read this:


45 posted on 08/15/2014 6:11:48 PM PDT by Drew68
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To: roamer_1
Meh. P*ssies talking to p*ssies about p*ssies. Patriarchy and matriarchy both have power. Different, but equal, and thus has always been the case. To diminish one is to diminish the other, and neither sex realizes their full potential. Women, in insisting an equal role and participation in patriarchy have lost the power of the matriarch. And men, chasing after these very women, have ceded the power of the patriarch. Now, there is neither, but only the hapless duality of the androgen... or the meaningless sufficiency of the hermaphrodite. What an unfortunate waste.


46 posted on 08/15/2014 6:14:33 PM PDT by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
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To: The Toll

Yep.

My Wife is a strong willed woman. No other would be as interesting. However, her attempts at gentrifying me to modern, effeminate, standards have failed.

I’m unabashedly Male and will remain so. Anyone else’s approval is not required.

Coming up on 18 years happily married next month.


47 posted on 08/15/2014 6:15:52 PM PDT by Dead Corpse (Tri nornar eg bir. Binde til rota...)
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To: Drew68
Their husbands are torn between the understandable desire to reject them and still wanting them back. Ironically, because these have nurtured the feminine side of their natures, they are also able to forgive in a way few men have been able to do in the past. But because they have no interest in returning to the “bad boy” mentality their competitors brandished, they are faced with a challenge most men have never had to confront. How do they hold on to their vulnerability and capacity to nurture, and blend it with the strength and power required of a self-respecting leader of men?

Good grief.

Words fail me.

48 posted on 08/15/2014 6:26:03 PM PDT by SIDENET
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To: Tau Food
Well, just open your eyes...

I did: to read the article.

You are injecting an issue not present in the article, presumably to give "women" a stronger justification than the author presents.

It's all very predictable, and it's called "chauvinism."

49 posted on 08/15/2014 6:26:05 PM PDT by papertyger (Those who don't fight evil hate those who do)
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To: Tau Food

I don’t know about you, but I see far more obese women (both young and middle-aged) than I do men. What’s worse is that lot them wear clothes that they shouldn’t.

And I’m not a guy.


50 posted on 08/15/2014 6:27:11 PM PDT by independentmind
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To: papertyger; Tau Food
No doubt she would have at least touched on your "laundry list" if it had any bearing on her thesis.

No doubt? Really? I can give you one big reason why she wouldn't have touched on it and that is because it didn't fit the point she wanted to make, that women are ditching their husbands just because.

And "laundry list"? You make my points sound like trivial complaints. Continuing to try to please your mate, not getting fat, being clean and smelling good are HUGE, for both men and women. When one side quits trying, the other side will inevitably quit caring.

51 posted on 08/15/2014 6:37:32 PM PDT by Lizavetta
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To: papertyger

Call me old-fashioned, but I think it’s nice when the wife needs a bra more than the husband. Romance is important.


52 posted on 08/15/2014 6:38:20 PM PDT by Tau Food (Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.)
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To: Drew68

No thanks - I’m a “millennial” and I like my men strong and manly... A “man’s man” as they call it in this article. My husband is in the military and has a very interesting job.. I’m very proud and he makes me feel safe.

I work and am college educated, I could try to be an equal - but I enjoy being the woman, and being married to a MAN. None of these wimps that emasculate themselves or inflate their wives’ egos. I see it far too often with my friends and it makes me worry for their future children..


53 posted on 08/15/2014 6:39:01 PM PDT by same old song
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To: Balding_Eagle

I read your link. No counter number was supplied, just a great deal of speculation on the source of the number. I went to the CDC site (http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/marriage-divorce.htm) and it shows a 53% divorce rate as of 2011.


54 posted on 08/15/2014 6:40:20 PM PDT by DeltaZulu
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To: Drew68
I gave up on women.

But fair is fair: I have to concede they gave up on me first.

55 posted on 08/15/2014 6:42:59 PM PDT by Lazamataz (First we beat the Soviet Union. Then we became them.)
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To: Age of Reason
Christians are called to reconcile.

Perhaps you are a FReeper atheist?

56 posted on 08/15/2014 6:51:01 PM PDT by ConservativeMind ("Humane" = "Don't pen up pets or eat meat, but allow infanticide, abortion, and euthanasia.")
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To: Drew68

It sickens me. In the last two days I have gotten man-bashing emails. I don’t send them on. Why does this have to continue?


57 posted on 08/15/2014 6:52:21 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: Drew68

Opposites attract. BFD.


58 posted on 08/15/2014 6:54:39 PM PDT by Jim Noble (When strong, avoid them. Attack their weaknesses. Emerge to their surprise.)
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To: Lizavetta
I can give you one big reason why she wouldn't have touched on it and that is because it didn't fit the point she wanted to make...

No doubt, but you seem to object to her point, and so contrive your own to make her observations more palatable to you.

Why do you feel the need to conflate her observations with your own?

And "laundry list"? You make my points sound like trivial complaints.

No more so than your list sounds resentful.

I'm always amused at how easily women trade in hypotheticals and unflattering generalizations about men, yet rise up in righteous indignation when one is even implied (as in this article) about women.

59 posted on 08/15/2014 7:09:15 PM PDT by papertyger (Those who don't fight evil hate those who do)
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To: Tau Food
Romance is important.

Please define "romance."

60 posted on 08/15/2014 7:17:11 PM PDT by papertyger (Those who don't fight evil hate those who do)
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