Guess I come from a different era.
Grew up in the Fifties, when kids weren’t oppressed for ‘acting up.’
An old British proverb has it that the battle of Waterloo (the British defeated Napoleon) was “won on the playing-fields of Eton” (the British school).
Folks, God is weeping. Boys need to be boys! I cringe when I see some overweening mother trying to make them into girls, while their dad just ignores them. The masculine energy will simply come out in some other, twisted way.
You could be right, but imagine if your child or grandchild came home and said I got hit my a chair that some little boy threw.