I doubt that where a fork or where the knife goes is the real point here, however; they added this for effect as these kids are not very smart. Let me give you an example of a kid, actually an adult and a niece. The girl was born in 1980, and; she has a degree in computer sciences, yet; she works off and on in bars. She weighs 250 or so, sat on my couch pretended she wanted a job, and; I had my neighbor find three jobs with then HCA 6-8 years ago for her. The girl never looked me in the eye. This was over some while ago, but; my wife’s son is lazy, plus a free loader. I noticed she kept pushing buttons on her cell phone. I inquired- “What are you doing?” She was TWEETING. What the hell is that I asked? What class and manners she had- I thought. I may as well as have been talking to the damn wall. The cat would have been better as she would have looked at me. I soon was told by my neighbor to ask her why she never contacted anyone of the three for an interview? The lazy ass did not want to be bothered to update her Resume. She is obese, ill mannered, and I would not hire her. I have never invited her back, and; no, I refuse to help her get a job.
Never care more about someone’s problems than they do.