And as always there are people who are supremely unhelpful. Christ will tell them so, too.
There is room for both attitudes. Too many college students think that drinking themselves into oblivion is funm and the consequences for them now and in the future are dreadful. They are children in adult bodies. Perhaps there is plenty of blame to go around for their attitudes.
On the other hand, my heart goes out to this girl and her family. What a shame. I pray for her healing and that the publicity about this might give others pause before they go on that next binge.