Being happy because one was raised sanely is not Christian. God has no grandchildren.
Being happy in spite of being raised insanely — because God gives you joy — IS Christian.
If I remember, Jesus didn't exactly shy away from calling people what they were.
We have a bunch of freeloading hypocrites in this country and I don't need a “can't we give peace a chance” mantra shoved down my throat right now.
We are hurt and angry. I talk honestly with God when I pray. If I am angry or confused I tell him. If I am hurting I tell him. I am sure He can tell when I am lying.
I don't pray like some grade school child who is told what to parrot in their nightly prayers.
And I sure as heck am not going to join you in the love fest you want us to have. I am angry. I believe God is angry. Please stop feeding me your lines right now. I'll talk to God about it.