Romans 12:4; Matthew 5:44; Luke 6:35; 1 Corinthians 4:12, 13; 1 Peter 2:23, 3:9
Pretty clear - BLESS and CURSE NOT. LOVE your enemies.
Again...Jesus commands us to do these things...and the Holy Spirit commands us to do these things through Paul and Peter. But...you are certainly not going to be the last to rationalize your way around doing what God commands in His word. Matter of fact...that's what a whole group of homosexuals do in church every Sunday: Rationalize sin. Instead of reading God's word and saying "well...it says DO THIS and DON'T DO THIS" ...they make loopty loops with it.
Sorta like fornicators with their "But we're in love" arguement.
Take it up with God...