I guess I don’t understand how one could not tell? IMHO these women must have to over look a lot of obivous signs to be fooled this badly. Perhpas the desire to be married cancels out their abiity to think straight?
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Growing up in a gay community, there are a lot of men who are very good at hiding it.
There are not always signs. Gays a masters of deception (to themselves and to others).
“There are not always signs. Gays a masters of deception (to themselves and to others).”
There are always signs. Always.
I am not blaming you for making the decision that you did.
What you said here, with your family automatically raises warning signs. I’d say the same thing with anyone who had divorced parents.
I would want to know them and their family and everything that has gone on about it. I’d want to know why it happened. This has a profoundly negative impact on the kids and their future marriage.
That's not necessarily a bad thing, though. If someone struggles with same-sex attractions, why should they wear that on their sleeve? Of course, you should never deceive someone you're dating into thinking you're something that you're not. You have my deep sympathy for your heart-wrenching experience. But maybe a lot of these men are hoping to find some sexual attraction to women. That just goes to show that part of their normal sex drive is still there, even if it has become seriously weakened. It's a myth that all male homosexuals have no attraction toward women. Many of them may not, but it seems that some do, at least to an extent.