“There are not always signs. Gays a masters of deception (to themselves and to others).”
There are always signs. Always.
I am not blaming you for making the decision that you did.
What you said here, with your family automatically raises warning signs. I’d say the same thing with anyone who had divorced parents.
I would want to know them and their family and everything that has gone on about it. I’d want to know why it happened. This has a profoundly negative impact on the kids and their future marriage.
There are always signs. Always.
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No there aren’t. That is a myth. If there were signs I would have seen them given where I grew up and my father. There weren’t any. And 20 years later, looking back, I will STILL say there weren’t any.
How many gays do you know personally? Because I have known thousands in my life (literally) and you couldn’t always tell.
Sure as hell sounds like you are blaming me or trying to psychoanalyze me. No thanks.
Can’t you get that he didn’t know, or if he did, he hid it well at the risk of being shunned and blacklisted by his family, friends and excommunicated by his church?
There is a lot of motivation for gay Mormons to appear and pretend to be ‘straight’, moreso than in America in general.
People don't always telegraph their intentions. Don't insult my wife.