[chris_bdba]

I guess I don’t understand how one could not tell? IMHO these women must have to over look a lot of obivous signs to be fooled this badly. Perhpas the desire to be married cancels out their abiity to think straight?

[reaganaut]

I guess I don’t understand how one could not tell? IMHO these women must have to over look a lot of obivous signs to be fooled this badly. Perhpas the desire to be married cancels out their abiity to think straight?

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Growing up in a gay community, there are a lot of men who are very good at hiding it.

There are not always signs. Gays a masters of deception (to themselves and to others).