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“When a teacher is trying to tone down a best-friend culture, I would like to know why..."

So the best way to discourage bullying is to prohibit close friendships? I don't know whether to vomit or cry.

1 posted on 06/21/2010 10:05:41 PM PDT by Melissa 24
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To: Melissa 24

It makes me want to vomit out my eye sockets.


2 posted on 06/21/2010 10:08:13 PM PDT by who_would_fardels_bear (These fragments I have shored against my ruins)
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To: Melissa 24

Why are we surprised...when THERE IS NO GOD IN SOCIETY...people believe they can control everything from the weather to human nature.


3 posted on 06/21/2010 10:08:39 PM PDT by Hildy
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But increasingly, some educators and other professionals who work with children are asking a question that might surprise their parents: Should a child really have a best friend?

Liberals always ask the dumbest questions.

They're probably threatened in that their devotion to their dogmatic worldview won't allow close friendships.

4 posted on 06/21/2010 10:11:29 PM PDT by TheThinker (Communists: taking over the world one kooky doomsday scenerio at a time.)
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To: Melissa 24
I don't know whether to vomit or cry.

When the state wants you to have a best friend, it will issue you one.

Until then, the State is your best friend, citizen.

5 posted on 06/21/2010 10:12:04 PM PDT by null and void (We are now in day 514 of our national holiday from reality. - 0bama really isn't one of US.)
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To: Melissa 24
About once a generation, a psychiatrist or psychologist appears who has a unique insight into human nature. One such was a fellow named Harry Stack Sullivan, at the Pratt Institute back in the 1930's-40's.

Sullivan was one of those savants who had the uncanny ability to relate to and cure schizophrenia without medication. Yes, they appear, and reinvent the wheel, every thirty-forty years or so.

One of Sullivan's insights was the essential value of what he called, simply, "buddies." He noted that people who had intimate(non-erotic) same-sex best friends as children, seldom developed severe mental illness later in life.

Anyone who attempts to suppress a 'best-friend' relationship ought to be considered a perpetrator of child abuse and be treated accordingly.

6 posted on 06/21/2010 10:25:15 PM PDT by hinckley buzzard
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This garbage was obviously dreamt up by a bunch of silly adults who urgently need to get lives of their own. Amazing that they don’t grasp that best friends stick up for each other when somebody tries to bully one of them, and weaken the hold that cliques have on individual members.


7 posted on 06/21/2010 10:36:21 PM PDT by GovernmentShrinker
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To: Melissa 24

It’s another crazy idea manufactered by crazy people.


11 posted on 06/21/2010 11:57:13 PM PDT by freekitty (Give me back my conservative vote; then find me a real conservative to vote for)
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12 posted on 06/22/2010 12:03:08 AM PDT by Lancey Howard
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It makes me sad to see how times have changed wrt having a best friend.

And, recess...


14 posted on 06/22/2010 12:11:21 AM PDT by dixiechick2000 (Remember November...I can see it from my house!)
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To: Melissa 24

Close same-sex friendships are natural and a precursor to opposite-sex relationships. It’s cliques that need to be discouraged, if anything does. Maybe they can’t be discouraged, but the phenomenon of the In Crowd has left many a child with sad high school memories.

Bullying should be discouraged also—it’s kind of an offshoot of the In Crowd phenomenon.


15 posted on 06/22/2010 12:20:11 AM PDT by firebrand
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