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Is it OK for Christians to attend same-sex weddings?
Christian Post ^ | 03/21/2022 | Michael Gryboski

Posted on 04/04/2022 9:27:01 PM PDT by SeekAndFind

Christians shouldn't attend same-sex wedding ceremonies, as attending would be to an inherent show of support, according to Southern Baptist Theological Seminary President Albert Mohler Jr.

In an episode of Mohler’s “The Briefing” podcast that aired Friday, the Evangelical theologian was asked by a listener about what to do if one is invited to a same-sex wedding ceremony.

Mohler responded by noting that the “whole context of the wedding as a public event is the public exchange of vows and the public declaration of the rightness of this relationship.”

“Remember that the traditional word used of those who are attending a wedding is that they are celebrants," he added. "They are there to celebrate the wedding. It is virtually impossible to go to … a wedding of a same-sex couple and go and smile and not give affirmation to what you believe to be fundamentally contrary to nature and injurious to human flourishing.”

Mohler went on to say that “if you are consistently biblical in your thinking, you simply can't go to a wedding that actually isn't a wedding, for a marriage that you don't believe is actually a marriage.”

“One of the principles that has guided the Christian church through the centuries is that the Church cannot sanction and Christians should not celebrate weddings that are illicit or unlawful according to Scripture.

“Now that can include some situations in which it would be a man and a woman standing at the altar, but we would believe there are biblical reasons why they should not be joined together, why it would not be a biblical marriage, it is not a rightful wedding. You extend that to the LGBTQ revolution and we have a whole new set of complexities, but in reality, this isn't a new question.”

Mohler tackled other listener-submitted questions in the podcast episode, including, when is a child too young to have a conversation about transgender ideology.

“The one thing we must always do is say what is true,” Mohler replied. “But understanding how much to say and how much to explain at any one moment to any given child, well, that is something that only faithful parents can actually well understand.”

“There's a difference between age 4 and 14. But it is parents more than any experts nor anyone outside the home who will have the best understanding of how and when to have certain discussions with children.”

Tim Wilkins of the conference “More Than Words” penned a column in 2018 that was reposted by The Christian Post in which he tackled the issue of Christians attending same-sex weddings.

“I do not believe a Christian should attend such a wedding for this basic reason ... this is not a ‘get-together’ or a social event,” wrote Wilkins, in an opinion piece that was originally published on Cross Ministry. “God Himself is being called on to oversee this solemn event and those in attendance are ‘witnesses’ of it.

“Having said that, I am not opposed to inviting the couple to a dinner at a local restaurant sometime later where I treat them to a meal. Why? There is no theological conflict here and such a meal would provide an opportunity to enjoy the meal and conversation.”


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1 posted on 04/04/2022 9:27:01 PM PDT by SeekAndFind
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To: SeekAndFind

Only if the officiant asks whether anyone objects, and then cite appropriate Scriptures. /s


2 posted on 04/04/2022 9:31:10 PM PDT by Hebrews 11:6 ("This is Thy pleasure, that Thou art my joy")
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To: SeekAndFind

The author is correct. No one, Christian or not, should attend a same-sex wedding.


3 posted on 04/04/2022 9:32:55 PM PDT by Responsibility2nd (I love my country. It's my government that I hate.)
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To: SeekAndFind
It's probably "OK", but why would you want to?   Talk about a "gross out!!!"
4 posted on 04/04/2022 9:33:58 PM PDT by higgmeister ( In the Shadow of The Big Chicken)
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To: SeekAndFind

No, not okay.


5 posted on 04/04/2022 9:35:34 PM PDT by Reno89519 (FJB. Respect America, Embrace America, Buy American, Hire American.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Read later.


6 posted on 04/04/2022 9:35:44 PM PDT by jroehl (And how we burned in the camps later - Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn - The Gulag Archipelago)
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To: SeekAndFind
No it's not - because you're identifying with a forbidden union ‘as a witness before God’.
7 posted on 04/04/2022 9:35:59 PM PDT by caww ( )
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To: SeekAndFind

Take them to Dinner,,,
Open to a Threesome !?!


8 posted on 04/04/2022 9:36:11 PM PDT by Big Red Badger (On the Other hand,,, Free Men Choose- - SLAVES OBEY)
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9 posted on 04/04/2022 9:43:20 PM PDT by gundog ( It was a bright cold day in April, and the clocks were striking thirteen. )
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To: Big Red Badger

”Why, yes... yes we are!”

10 posted on 04/04/2022 9:45:12 PM PDT by gundog ( It was a bright cold day in April, and the clocks were striking thirteen. )
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To: SeekAndFind

Take them out to dinner? Uh, no thanks.


11 posted on 04/04/2022 9:49:02 PM PDT by DennisR (Look around - God gives countless clues that He does, indeed, exist.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Under God, it is not a marriage.


12 posted on 04/04/2022 9:51:06 PM PDT by Karliner (Heb 4:12 Rom 8:28 Rev 3, "...This is the end of the beginning." Churchill)
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To: SeekAndFind

I went to my wife’s daughter’s (by her first marriage).
Originally, I planned on going only in support of my wife. Then, I realized I had much stronger “ulterior purpose”.
I hated and cringed pretty much thru the whole of it, and we left out asap. But not before I got to pray a curse on it that it would break up and not last. Within 2 years, they went their separate ways.
I’m now praying for an Acts 12:21-24 event for pedoJoe and his merry band of evil ilk.


13 posted on 04/04/2022 9:53:57 PM PDT by lgjhn23 (Pray for America....)
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To: Karliner

Even if two queers got married by a justice of the peace in a totally non-religious and secular ceremony this “wedding” still violates basic fundamental natural laws and therefore cannot be sanctioned or approved.


14 posted on 04/04/2022 9:59:17 PM PDT by Responsibility2nd (I love my country. It's my government that I hate.)
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To: SeekAndFind

It’s not a wedding because it doesn’t lead to a marriage.


15 posted on 04/04/2022 10:04:16 PM PDT by lakecumberlandvet (Appeasement never works.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Why would you attend something that mocks God?


16 posted on 04/04/2022 10:07:04 PM PDT by WKUHilltopper
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To: SeekAndFind

Let’s not call it a ‘wedding’. A couple of homosexuals standing next to each other in a farcical setting and taking oaths to continue their deviant relationship does not make it a wedding.


17 posted on 04/04/2022 10:08:18 PM PDT by libh8er
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To: SeekAndFind

In traditional Christian wedding ceremonies (ie. everything for the last 2000 years until up to about 25 years ago) attendees at weddings are called to be witnesses of the union before God.

Your attendance at a “same-sex wedding” automatically gives consent and approval to the “union.”


18 posted on 04/04/2022 10:09:33 PM PDT by PGR88
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To: SeekAndFind

Is it open bar??


19 posted on 04/04/2022 10:14:50 PM PDT by algore
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To: SeekAndFind

No.


20 posted on 04/04/2022 10:15:59 PM PDT by Yogafist
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