They can go if they are divorced, it’s only if they remarried. Homosexuals can go if they do not fornicate. Those are the rules. They have always been the rules. Not everyone can be a victim.
Ah, NOW you add the caveats. I KNEW those things too, as a matter of fact. I also know the rules but you DIDN'T assume that.
No, everyone can't be a victim. Did I say anything to the contrary? Or are you reading more to what I write than what I write? I hope not. PLEASE try NOT to assume that I'm an idiot. I know it might be very, very, very difficult for you but ... hey, give it a whirl. :o)