Ah, NOW you add the caveats. I KNEW those things too, as a matter of fact. I also know the rules but you DIDN'T assume that.
No, everyone can't be a victim. Did I say anything to the contrary? Or are you reading more to what I write than what I write? I hope not. PLEASE try NOT to assume that I'm an idiot. I know it might be very, very, very difficult for you but ... hey, give it a whirl. :o)
Hey I know you know. But I am tired of all the “victims” that cry about the rules. If you are Catholic you know the rules. Everyone wants an exception. So many in fact they have to have a synod over it. So don’t get mad at me for stating the obvious.