I know this pastor from a small town who was well known by his family of 11 children.
One day a man was visiting the church and told him “I understand you’re the man with 11 children. I wish I had 11 children”
The pastor laughed and said “Wow! I don’t think you know what you’re saying”
The visitor replied “Yes I do, I have 12!”
did that guy have one kid in mind particularly he wanted to make go away?