I also agree with AR on the last portion. for a long time I advocated that ECUSA folks should stay and fight, but now I don't believe there is anything worth saving in the ECUSA anymore -- except for good people like you, altura.
If the House of Bishops teaches, in word and deed, one thing about sexual ethics, and you and your parish teach another, something is not right. If your parish is wrong, your rector and the people should repent.
If the House of Bishops is wrong, then there's a problem. I know the Articles say that Councils have erred (and therefore obviously are able to err.)
If one thinks so, and if one thinks the Bishops in council can and do err (and a fortiori one’s own rector can and does err — even when he obeys his bishop) then you are like sheep without a shepherd. But IHS said to Peter, "Feed my sheep... tend my lambs," and he promised the Holy Ghost would lead the Apostles into all truth.
From Henry VIII and Cranmer to the present day, the fundamental theological problem (as distinct from spiritual problem) of Anglicanism is a broken ecclesiology. Their version of the Church is
It was heartrending — for a minute — to "renounce my orders" and to "abandon the communion." But almost daily I thank God that he gave me the grace to do so.