A good start would be the local Catholic Priest getting back to me and making an appointment to meet him like I have been asking for.
This time of year is (let me choose the right word) not the most auspicious --- for a good sit-down meeting with your good priest. On top of everything else, my own Fr. Pete has been ministering to three (3!) families that have had loved ones hospitalized in car smash-ups. Lord have mercy.
LIke I said, I'm not aware of your particular circumstances, but I will pray that it all goes well.
Peace!
Merry Christmas!