Posted on 02/02/2011 11:21:25 AM PST by Salvation
One of the greatest gifts of the Human person is the capacity to speak. It is also one of our greatest weaknesses. The Book of James says,
We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect!, able to keep their whole body in check. When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, and thus we can turn the whole animal. Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts.
Consider how a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of ones life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in Gods likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. (James 3:2-18)
Perhaps the most common sins we commit are related to speech: gossip, idle chatter, lies, exaggerations, harsh attacks, uncharitable observations and remarks. With our tongue we can spread hatred, incite fear and maliciousness, spread mis-information, cause temptation, discourage, teach error, and ruin reputations. We can surely cause great harm with a gift capable of such good!
Note how James says in the quote above that we have learned to tame just about every wild animal, but the tongue, such a small part of us physically is barely able to be tamed. One may conquer many sins by Gods grace, but speech is usually the last. It almost seems that a different and lower part of our brain has a life of its own when it comes to speech. We can be halfway through saying something before we even realize how stupid and sinful we are being. Every now and then we even forget who were talking to or that what we say might get repeated.
An elderly woman walked into the local country church. The friendly usher greeted her at the door and helped her up the flight of steps, Where would you like to sit? he asked politely. The front row please, she answered. You really dont want to do that, the usher said, The pastor is really boring and you might nod off to sleep. Hmm Do you happen to know who I am? the woman inquired. No. he said .. Im the pastor`s mother, she replied indignantly. Oh! Do you know who I am? he asked. No. she said. Good, he answered.
A young couple invited their elderly pastor for Sunday dinner. While they were in the kitchen preparing the meal, the minister asked their son what they were having. Goat, the little boy replied. Goat? replied the startled man of the cloth, Are you sure about that? Yep, said the youngster. I heard Dad say to Mom, `Today is just as good as any to have the old goat for dinner.
Oops .open mouth insert foot! Many are the sins we commit through speech. It is such a gift and yet so often misused.
And not only do we sin by commission but also by omission. For frequently we are silent when we should speak. We do not correct when we should. In our age the triumph of evil and bad behavior has been assisted by our silence as a Christian people. Prophets are to speak Gods word but too often we fulfill Isaiah 56:10 which says, Israels watchmen are blind, they all lack knowledge; they are all dumb dogs, they cannot bark; they lie around and dream, they love to sleep. I pray you are an exception, but too many Christians are well described here. So our speech is riddled with what it should not have, and devoid of what it should have. How wretched indeed our condition. Well did James say: Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect!
There are many cautions to learn when it comes to speech. Here are some other Scriptures on speech, mostly from the Wisdom Tradition:
Help Lord! keep Your arm around my shoulder and Your hand over my mouth! Put your word in my heart, so that when I do speak, its really you.
(And then not speaking! LOL!)
Catholic Ping!
And let me think before I type on this forum!
Absolutely! Speech extends to what is written on these forums.
The internet may be anonymous and provide cover for the imprudent, contentious and nasty uncharitable remarks made by some, but God isn’t fooled. He certainly knows.
A couple of decades ago I remember listening to Brother Copeland says, “That 3 oz nasty little piece of meat called our tongue causes much sin”
I try very hard to type the way that I speak. It’s hard sometimes, because I want to convey something or other, and of course, in print, vocalisms don’t come through, darn it. Or, I’ll be bouncing one twin on my knee, and trying to type out something I’d just thought of, trying not to lose child or thought. Salvation, as always, these are great. Thank you for sharing these.
Ping for later
“Language, it’s a virus.” Laurie Anderson
I try to keep in mind when tempted to gossip or bad-mouth someone: “Would I be getting ready to say this if the person I’m talking about were standing right next to me?”
I can identify, sadly....
Definitely worth reading. Thanks for posting.
Thanks
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